Self-esteem

So, I realized the other night why I am still alone and still a virgin. It isnt lack of confidence, it isnt looks, it isnt any number of other things that you might associate with why. It is, however, a common reason. Low self-esteem. I never thought it was possible to be as confident or as happy as I am to have self-esteem issues. Outwardly, everybody that I know thinks of me as the happiest man alive that never gets angry or sad. I dont think anybody wouldve thought my value of myself would be an issue. However, it looks like that is the case. Whatever caused it, I dont know. Maybe it was goals set by the rest of my families accomplishments that I wanted to meet. Or something entirely different.

In the end, that doesnt matter. Because now that I know what the problem is, I can work on fixing it. I am going to stop living so much for other people, and more for myself. It is going to be interesting, hard, and awkward for me to change. I have lived my entire life for the happiness of other people. It isn’t so bad to be a little selfish, is it?
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you sound like you have a good grip on the issue.

good luck, I am sure you can do it. Self-esteem and confidence can coflict (as they do with you.) Change may be slow, but it will come with determination.
 
I think it is going to go alright. I made quick small talk with a girl for a minute or two before I moved on with my day (started to feel like I was intruding). So thats a pretty big step right there.
 
Keep us updated. I hope it works out for you. I gave the same issue, so I guess I'm interested in success stories. Good luck!
 
Hey bud, you seem to have everything in your corner: athletic body, good imagination, healthy cum shots, etc. Good luck with your efforts and I wish you much luck
 
What steps have you taken? I had similar issues when I was in school. Now I'm in a good plsce!
 

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