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Been awhile since I have posted anything. I am trying to get up a verification photo. Getting the quiet time is the problem. With work and all. I have my biggest erections in the middle of the night, but I am afraid the flash will wake the wife and then she will want to know why I am taking pictures of my penis....

We did get together last night which was nice. I love making her cum and I love feeling her around me. It is the connection thing. I can jack off ten times a day, but I do not get the emotional release I get with her. I do not feel as connected as I do when we make love.

I have been reading of a lot of other men here who are living through similar issues. Almost want to ask if we can have our own section for "Men without sex." or something like that.

Why no more blogging than the two so far?? Well, I get up, I get showered and shaved and dressed and off to work. I come home, I do my chores, I go t bed and start all over again the next day. I figure people don't want to read that everyday.

So, I will let you know when I get the verification thing done and then everyone can see that while I am not the biggest in the world, I have enough to do the job. At least I have never had a complaint and several compliments.

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Hi there, just finished my blog entry and noticed yours. Sounds like we have a bit in common. Just had 2 months no orgasms, not even a stir of arousal before I came here. Also emotionally disconnected with my mate--something we're going to counseling about. Hard to tell if it's helping since we only started. Good luck on getting verified! Gold Membership is truly where it's at--how else can you comment on photos!? Welcome here, and I hope you find your groove back too--like I did mine! :boobies2:
 
Ummmmm, not sure about being golden... I am too new to this forum to know any better.

As for time, go to the bathroom close the door and take a snapshot. This way if needed the bathroom light being used can diffuse the flash.

Sorry to hear of your issues, maybe a section entitled "Asexual Fixation" thus being broader and allowing multible threads like all the other sections here. Just my two cents.

From what I have gathered about Asexual tendencies...

A drastic change in partners connection, whether it be demeanor, hormonal changes (men get that way too), physical attraction (Face it we all change, some have difficulties with it), and life changes (work, lifestyle, and isolation) to name a few.

There is also the feeling of sex is just too much work for hardly any pleasure. Whether you feel it is forced upon you or unsure about ones self. Most men feel they should be the best sexual provider to their mate. It seems that men and some women, place sex to high a standard to keeping interests up in a relationship. Sometimes, that standard becomes so high that it becomes a burden. Thus the feeling of sex not being natural. Leaving sex to be all your responsibility, even when you seem not to be able to control your partners needs. Face it all men would brag on how much they can make their partner scream and what not in bed. If that were the case, sex would not be a problem.

If a man feels inadequate in any way, sex becomes unpleasant in thoughts. Sex is in the mind, and there is no way to change without dealing with it and moving past your own thoughts about yourself.

Maybe it takes going back to relearn each other sexually. To allow your partner to take charge without putting any demands, or expectations. You watch and allow your partner to do anything they want with you, as you can relax knowing nothing is expected of you. Seeing that the effort in satisfying your partner is not the problem, will allow you to feel less pressured and confident, that spontaneity is not measured by how fast your dick rises to the occasion.
 

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