Sex Diary - 5th February 2020

February 2020

Is this even a sex diary?

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:emoji_high_brightness: 5th Feb: Smooth trim Chinese man (30, Grindr, my bedroom)

This guy had messaged me in November or December when I'd come close to his place for a hook-up. He lives about 8km to the South. He seemed very keen then and very keen when he messaged me today. He wanted to meet. We exchanged the above details and I gave him my address.

Our meeting was easy. He was quiet, we talked a little. He ran his hands under my T-shirt and played with my nipples. Cuddled. Kissed. Got naked. My dick looked huge against his one. He wanted his nipples sucked, so I did - he had quite sensitive ones. I sucked him quite briefly twice and he sucked me quite briefly once - a bit too gently. Then I sucked him again for a little bit longer and licked his balls.

His body was so smooth, but his clippered public hair was very abraisive. It was fun to kiss his body, but his neck and collar bones were too ticklish. I stroked his flesh. He asked me to roll over and he gave me a massage that was a five or six out of ten - it's a bit tough with no oils etc. But, sure it was nice enough - and he paid attention to my arms and fingers and scalp as well.

He had gone quite soft. I lay him on his back and worked at it with my mouth for a couple of minutes, it was quite slow to become erect. Just slightly longer and slightly wider than my thumb, and I have quite thin fingers. I pressed at the base of his penis to help him trap a bit more blood and just worked my magic. Within thirty seconds of him becoming 80% erect, he said he was cumming and shot most of it down my throat. I cradled him for a few minutes after that in silence. His legs were so smooth, you couldn't feel a hair.

"Do you want to cum?" He asked.

"Yes," I answered.

He rolled me on my back, his head on my right shoulder, and said, "I'm gonna make you cum."

Then he did sweet fuck all. Tugged on my dick, which had gone soft with frustration and neglect by this point - tugged three times for a total of ten seconds. He stroked my body with his right hand. He rubbed the final bit of his semen just below my left ribcage. I lay there expectantly.

I have a very, very consent oriented approach to sex. I don't like to have to ask for oral sex, it's just better as a gift given freely. Anal you sometimes have to negotiate and warm the partner up... but when it's just dick sucking, DO IT! If I had to ask, it would have shifted my mindset and I may have just been to preoccupied to enjoy it after that. The last thing I ever want to endure is an unwilling b.j. Besides, he's written to me he was into sucking and had just said he would make me cum . . .

"I still have to have dinner. I think I'm going to go home," He said, somewhere between five and ten minutes into not sucking my cock at all.

I got up. Got dressed. Escorted him out. And that was that. Fuck this shit.
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Jeez you deserve better. I wouldn't have sucked the dude at all. But I do relate to the not-having-to-ask-for-a-blowjob. And plenty of Grindr-hookups-from Hell.
 
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I sent him this message three days later:

"Hmm. I guess what confused me is that you rolled me on my back and said, 'I'm gonna make you cum.' And you didn't suck my dick at all. :joy:. That was weird"

No reply. And he's always been a speedy replier in the past. But, I'm willing to learn - maybe I had sent a strange signal he hadn't understood.

In Dec I sucked this dancer's big white cock and he started on me, but stopped. Later I found out that he expects to get a lot of verbal feedback and just assumed that because I was quiet I didn't enjoy it.

For me, I find I have to be quiet to enjoy BJs, I just relax totally, sink down into myself and connect with the pleasure until my breathing changes as I approach orgasm. Talking just messes up my mojo there.
 
Dude, you're far too hot for these disappointing encounters. First off, delete Asian twink and don't think about him. Perhaps dancer dude as well unless he comes at you. There's always lousy experiences but a balance with amazing sex that you deserve. The older I get I guess the more confident I am and the more assertive or cocky even. And I just get what I want or walk away politely from that which isnt a match. Don't sell yourself short. You're a very sexy guy.
 

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