Sex Diary - 8th February 2020

February 2020

6th Feb

:emoji_information_source: Mixed race bohemian (Grindr, Bird sanctuary tour)

We'd had a chat in a cafe sometime in Jan. A friend of his had to leave the country, so I took a free ticket to a day. Fun excursion but no real sexual chemistry. He was very kind to me, and wouldn't even let me pay for lunch.

Then:

:emoji_information_source: Stylish hairy white guy (Grindr & Tinder, couch Netflix)

While my friend napped on the island during our lunch stop, I got messaging with this guy. I had to drive to the shore. He was cute, but said he was after cuddles only and not sex. I asked if I could shower off the sunscreen at his place, yes. He kept a distance while I washed. No instruction for how to make the water warm, lol - I tried every handle position!

He was slim, his hair perfectly shaped and his body bristling with blond, red, light brown hair. He bought me dinner via Uber Eats. We watched a boring film on Netflix. Touched each other lightly, chatted a bit, hug, kiss on cheek and left. He never replied to my text after that, so... we all know what that means

8th Feb

I've had some amazing prospects come up on Grindr. Young horny guys. But they've all been busy with friends and have set meeting up to "later". But damn, if this come to fruition, yay me.

:emoji_high_brightness: Very cute slim guy (Squirt, in the bushes)

Okay, so I really blundered this one. He has no profile picture, but sent me some photos on the Squirt chat. Really good looking guy. I love dark hair. Slim waist. We were both horny and clearly not thinking straight when we decided, at his suggestion, to try sex in public at a mid-point between our places. Only, we should have waited until it was getting dark.

We met as planned (good sign). He walked me into the bushes, which became relatively steep narrow dirt tracks. There were two other guys cruising, and that made him uncomfortable. Plus the light of day really shows up the flaws in an area. Broken glass, lots of rocks, not as much cover as one imagines, used condoms draped on tree branches. We went around looking for a spot. Started making out and he tugged on my dick through my shorts. That was about it. I guess comfort matters a lot to me - and this scenario would only have been good for oral sex... when he really wanted to bottom for me. We left the park. His place was no longer free and he shrugged off the thought of coming back to mine. We agreed to talk later - but he hasn't messaged me yet and I've not been horny enough since to send one myself.

:emoji_high_brightness: Tall personal trainer (Grindr, his apartment)

This is actually a four-year sex raincheck that I'm cashing in. I sat in my car after being slightly rebuffed by the first guy. Turns out a guy I'd had a tea with long ago now lived only 250m from where I'd parked. We chatted through the app for about thirty minutes and he said he was happy to be my date substitute. We chatted on the couch for twenty odd minutes, a little bit of light stroking.

We got naked in the bedroom. His kissing was really weird, small mouthed, very little tongue - I'm used to it being a bit bigger and messier. It's strange when you're with someone noticeably taller than you to see what parts of them differ. Small dick, which looks tiny against incredibly long legs. And a small bum, but proportioned so well. His oral was pretty good - and if that's all we wanted to do, I could likely have climaxed from it.

It's very hard to throw a 6'5" chap around, so I never quite got him on his back to return oral in the same way, I just had to bend down while he was kneeling. In this position I could slip a hand between his legs and he was vocally accepting of a finger against his hole. He lay on his stomach and I rimmed him, then on his knees for more rimming. It was all good back there. Loosened him with one finger and then two, could tell he was tight. Penetration was excruciating. He sat on my dick and fuck... the pressure to get it in was almost more than I could take... but just before I asked to stop: schluck, it went in.

He bent over the foot of the bed and I fucked him standing. He had a long anal tunnel I guess, being so tall, a bit more muscle fibre to loosen than the average guy. He'd shaved his ass and the regrowth felt a bit like fucking a cactus at times - but still, I was horny and this was good. He asked me if I liked his hole, and I sputtered a response. About five minutes of pumping away in that position and jizzed inside him, my legs felt weak for a half second, had to shake them out. I fingered him and sucked his nipples while he climaxed. We showered. Then cuddled back on the bed quietly for a good twenty minutes at least. That was a nice way to come down from orgasming.

Comments

Now that's what I'm talking about. Hell the fuck yes. My dick is hard just reading this. Finding a masculine bottom (hich I'm speculating he may be if he's a personal trainer)..well that's like my ideal. I thhink you should tell this guy in a couple days you really enjoyed spending time with him and mention the afterglow intimacy showering and cuddling together. And see where it goes from there. Not necessarily happily ever after...but you never know.
 
Public sex always felt like a hot idea, but I've never found a location I really thought would be good for it. One wrong move and your hands or thighs are covered in dirt or tree sap. Bad smells can turn me off immediately and some cruising spots smell rancid.
 
Thanks for this feedback. Yeah, I think I could only do quick oral in such a location. I do realise I am a highly sensitive person, and really prefer to be able to control temperature, light, comfort, breeze etc. around sex. I get too distracted. But I know there are such physically robust men as well for whom traffic noise, other men, sticks and stones are all just distant abstract things in comparison to their experience of their own desire.
 

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