Sex with a Friend

I have a long time friend , both of us compete in the equestrian field ,very fit some say good looking guys . Both have female friends and yes we do have sex with them . However I have always had this thing about my firend I think he is hot as but have never had the guts to say to him about how I feel . Yes I have seen him on many occasions naked ( believe me it is worth the look ) he is very well endowed and I am susre he pleased his lady friend . Any way a few weeks ago things got out of hand and we ended up playing with each other and now this has led to us having a full on fuck session .
I do not know how I feel . the sex is great . but I keep thinking I must be gay as I have these feelings . This is the first time with a guy . How should I handle this

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My question for you is, do you still have feeling for the ladies? If so you may just be bi.
 
How should you handle what?? You're having fun. He's having fun. Neither of you is married. What is the problem?

My advice is to enjoy the added dimension to your friendship. I know there are some on here who say having sex with a friend is a bad idea. I have had sex with lots of my friends. Some we were friends first and some were hookups that became friends. NEVER have I had a problem. But I'm not weirded out or stressed about it so that makes a big difference.

Life is short and you won't have your looks forever. Have fun!!
 
You have "always" had "this thing" for your friend. Does that mean that when you were looking at him, and noticing his endowment, you maybe got a little sensation of excitement in your own cock, even long ago? Has this happened when you were looking at other guys? Did you have the feeling that he shared your feelings of a physical interest in each other's bodies? You moved pretty quickly from just fooling around to a full on fuck session. Was that the result of a series of encounters that built on each other, or all in one encounter? Did you feel relieved? Relaxed? Enjoy the sensation of intimacy with this guy? Any conversations with him since? What does he say?

I don't think the question is, "I've just fucked a guy, first time. Does that make me gay?" I think that you might want to explore whether you have had a sense of physical attraction to some men for some time, but have nevertheless been traditional in your courting and enjoying sexual encounters with women. In any case, the labels are not particularly important. The opportunity that has opened here is to the opportunity to enjoy a range of intimate personal encounters when appropriate situations arise. Are you up for that?
 
May I reinforce the view that our human urge to categorise and label is rather unhelpful. A predominantly straight guy can enjoy gaysex without having to re-classify himself as bisexual - just as a predominantly gay guy can enjoy sex with a woman and still remain predominantly gay.

No need for stress in your assimilation and adjustment to this experience. As above replies, this is another dimension to your friendship with him.
 
You can't realize it now but you have acquired someone in your life who you can be totally yourself with. You don't know what a huge gift that is.
 
Thanks Guys for the comments . will take on board and yes I do feel so much better asbout things now /

Hey this has been a progression
Greg
 

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