Sexless Diary - 14th April 2020

While it only feels like April fool's was yesterday - that gives some respite that the days are traveling fast.

However the days are also extremely horny. I find myself checking LPSG more than usual.

:emoji_eye_in_speech_bubble: Video Engagement: I uploaded my first clip, fifty seconds of me pumping and cumming through a sex toy, to three sites, and one week later:
  • LPSG: 295 views, 24 likes
  • Dudesnude: 367 views, 11 hot-clicks
  • Squirt: 370 views, 52 rankings ending in 4/5 stars
LPSG gets slightly fewer views but a much higher sense of engagement and community. I maybe had three messages on DN from overseas, and a few messages locally on Squirt from guys who'd viewed it. LPSG is definitely more forum/community focused, while the other two sites are dating and hook-up focused

:emoji_eject: Sex List : I keen refining and adding to this out of boredom and desperation. It now lists men by sex act and likelihood of meeting. Pretty sad, but good to have some hope of sexual release after lockdown.

:emoji_8ball: Farmer (40s, partnered, outside the city)
I've been talking to a guy who's been in a monogamous relationship with a man for a decade and a half. I get so horny thinking about fucking his hole - one that has only had one other dick in it for so long.
I don't see sex as a moral issue, nor even cheating really - if it's done in the right way. I would never cheat on a partner, because I have a certain degree of integrity for me (i.e. I conform my behaviour to my own values, and I would communicate long before about my sexual needs): but for other men in other scenarios, well, they have different stories and I leave their business up to them. I respect their relationship, but when given a chance to be treated as desirable, to be welcomed, to be pleasured, held, kissed, penetrated, to have their name uttered in panting and bliss, and to be cum inside - it can only be a good thing that I do. From my perspective. Am I wrong?

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Wrong you aren't. It's your point of view and I guess you're entitled to it. It depends on your moral values and limits.
Exactly the same way, any other perspectives on this are correct. I know a lot of guys who immediately pull off when they know I've a relationship saying "I don't wanna cause trouble to your relationship or to get caught in the middle of the two of you". I guess it's just as acceptable a position.
 
@Lynx_prt Thanks for this insight.
Good sex has benefits.
If he's going to stray, well, I don't mind the self-promotion but it's gonna be safer with me nine times out of ten I guess.
 

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