Size does NOT matter

I've gotten this question a zillion times so I'm going to answer it (again) once and for all : size does not matter at all to me nor to anyone in our community...at least on paper. The only thing that matters and can become a topic of conversation is the aspect of a dick. It's considered manlier and more appealing to have a large head or at least a glans that looks significantly larger than the shaft and to be cut as low and tight as possible with, preferably a piercing going through the glans (PAs and frenulum piercings are acceptable but kind of deemed to be the extreme minimum). So whenever a picture is posted on WhatsApp, no one will ever say something about a dick size, although we do have plenty of little ponies in our community. Same for more modest dicks : no one budges.
People will, however, comment on the cut and say "it's too lose", "you didn't get your son a proper cut", "why did he get a PA, was he scared of the pain?" and shit like this. The ones who have a foreskin that is naturally short are often times teased because the operation is a rite of passage. It's a little hypocritical in the sense that many of us got cut and sometimes even pierced as infants but we don't talk about it in the group, officially everyone got snipped and pierced at puberty.
Double piercing is a thing as well but it's pretty rare amongst newer generations. Last time it happened was this instance :

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This old picture shows the same guy twice. He's got a low and tight and a double piercing across the head right at the age of 18. I know him, he asked his dad for this, otherwise he would have just gotten a high and tight and one piercing like his old man.
In his introductory message, his dad says "when he asked to cut it all and pieced it twice, I automatically understood". What he understood is that his son is gay, I mean a 100% gay and does not intend on even trying to have sex with a woman, not even once. It is said that gay man, in order to be more receptive during anal penetration, should get a low and tight so that they focus more on their G-spot.
That's probably bullshit but some people believe it. The double piercing is more manly and fitted to someone who's gonna fuck guys during the rest of his life, it's also said to procure more pleasure to the bottom during penetration. Apparently it does, according to some people I know including him. Why should he have to go the extra mile to look manlier than other dudes? Well, in the eyes of older dudes, a gay guy has to compensate. That's also why he's got a full bush. He won't know any woman so he might as well start using his cock asap.
You can sense in the introductory message that the dad is already trying to find a partner for his son who was a virgin at the time, he wrote "If one of you has a son that's good to marry, I have this little stallion who extremely enduring and fully virgin. He's basically hard 24/7".
Why is he saying that? Well, he's probably concerned because being gay involves finding clean guys to fuck and they're not many of them who would consider themselves gay. Even a horny older dude won't fuck a guy with a full bush, especially if it's a known fact that he's gay which makes it certain that he's doing it for pleasure. Everyone is doing it for pleasure but no one says it, unless they're gay or bi. So straight dudes like to keep up the appearances and make it look like neither them nor their young partners are doing it for pleasure. JP use to half joke about the fact that I was taking "too much pleasure" in our encounters. Later on, he also joked about the fact that he was taking too much pleasure in them. Fast forward 15 years, it's only now that we both acknowledge that we're bi, that we openly say we're doing it only for pleasure.
You can empty your balls in unclean guys but it can certainly not become a habit or a long lasting relationship. So I guess the old man is concerned that his son will either not fuck enough or end up messing with an unclean dick, two equally discussing prospects for people like him, my own father, my uncles and, quite frankly, myself, too. The thought of even jerking off an uncut dick personally repulses me, I really associate it with being a child. For me uncut + unpierced = child, no matter the body attached to it. I had sex with unpierced guys (never uncut), but it was strictly me receiving a blowjob while they remained clothed or, sometimes, me fucking them doggystyle and NEVER unloading in them. I simply couldn't. Also, no one knows about it and I'll take this secret to the grave.
This guy on the picture is now 21, his name is L. He's just like me and the vast majority of men in our social group, he would never mess around with an unclean guy and he was actually pretty happy his dad advertised for him on the group. He told me he had three serious relationships and one one-time hook up since the moment he got clean. There are simply not enough clean guys in his neck of the woods for him to be able to be a man whore. Two relationships lasted a year each and one is still going on.
The first one was a married 40 year old clean dude named M, L was still bare and M would just fuck him in the ass like he would any freshly cleaned teen, same as what I got with JP, same as what we all get, except that L made the mistake to think it was a relationship. I mean, it's a special bond but it's not a romantic relationship and the gifts and the trips together don't change anything too that. It's transactional, the younger dude gets to release his hormones that he can't release otherwise and gets taught everything about sex in exchange of letting the older one get off and gain social varnish for being a real man and a mentor. It's win win. As usual, the dude's wife was aware of it, everyone was aware of it, it was no secret. It's never a secret, I saw M laying a hand on L's ass cheek in public multiple times, JP did and still does the same with me, but that does not make that relationship a love one. L learned it the hard way and decide to end things and start using his cock that had been left completely untouched and unused even by himself.
So he let his pubes grow and went looking for a boyfriend around his age. He's very tall, muscular and good looking, finding a boyfriend wasn't a problem. Yet, between the age of 16 and 17 nothing happened except one hook up during which he finally lost his virginity.


The first one was already clean, he got the second one cut and pierced and the current one was already cut so he just got him pierced (double piercing and everything). He said it actually did not take that much convincing. What took more convincing

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