Sooooooo

Sooooooo, against all odds, it was a very interesting summer.

If you recall from my last blog entry, I had begun to flirt with a friend from the university who had recently broken up, just like me. Finally, at the end of July, something "clicked" with him and we both decided to see each other: it was good, we had sex twice, but it was also weird, he was literally the first guy I had after 7 years with my (now ex) boyfriend. Above all, we both understood that those two times were enough: there is nothing sentimental between us, but I must say that we both needed to relax a little, let off some steam, and both of us needed some fun.

Then, in mid-August I did only ten days at sea. I usually go for a month: what a very strange year. But I managed to make those ten days worthwhile :D I met a friend of friends, whom I had already seen last year (I already saw how he looked at me, but obviously I was busy). This time we wrote to each other for a couple of days, and I decided to be relaxed, to let myself go knowing that the limited time at sea had to be easy: so yes, we hooked up, again twice. We had a good time, but above all it was easy just like I wanted: after those days, I went home in my city, he went to his home (we live in very distant cities) and that's okay, we wrote to each other a few times but it's right that it ended so voluntarily for both of us.

Now, I know, I know very well what you are all thinking, what you want to ask me. And if I write on a site like this, I must be aware that certain questions are right to come. But I won't give you juicy details: I can only tell you that, regarding "that thing", I was luckier with the second guy than with the first, but we are not yet at the levels you expect. Sooner or later I'll be lucky, of course :D

Jokes aside and sexual things aside, they were short but intense experiences especially from a mental point of view: after 7 years with my boyfriend, I went with another person (I must say with two, who would have thought that), for the first time I had sex without it leading to a relationship, and I am fine. Strange, but it went well, and it was the right thing to do. I deserved it.



p.s. entry blog dedicated to a follower who ask me recently how my summer was :p

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