I joined LPSG a few weeks back and stopped interacting on the website because to be perfectly honest I was ill prepared for the 'culture'.
As a new member back then, I was viewed with suspicion and it soon became clear why very few women feel welcome enough to stay around. It seems in the chatrooms a certain core group start spreading rumours, because of their own paranoia that no woman could interact on this site with articulation wit and charm and therefore can't be female! Historically I have been informed that this doubt occured because a few unsavouries have pretended to be female in order to chat up men. We are now the victims of this minority and have to have all methods of proof that we are indeed women! How crass is that?
Undeterred I got a webcam and came back. Easy peasy talk one on one and allay all fears that I could be a man. Not as simple as that. The empty vessels making the most noise, although invited to, do not come and check for themselves, but are content to set the rumour mill going again.
I go into the chatroom and try to liven it up - I have seen many people do the same thing but it is just one long round of trying to break this hard core of members who 'rule the roost'. Others join in but are met with sarcastic comments for daring to step outside of the norm - which is (as far as my experience goes) men talking ad nauseum about the size of their dicks, when it is obvious they are in there everyday and have memorised every single centimetre of erection, flaccidity and semi known to man. Is this all you are capable of chatroom boys? You can check out EVERYONES vitals by looking at their profile or talking in ims. Im not dictating the agenda in the chatroom (unlike some) but can't it just lighten up a little and those old hands make an effort to be more welcoming?
I left the chatroom today and I was gossiped about and my womanhood dissed. Thats not nice guys. I went back and spoke DIRECTLY to you after someone contacted me on mns to tell me what was going on. It ruffled a few feathers but hey - as my signature says Some peoples idea of free speech is that they can talk freely about anything, but when someone answers back its an outrage. Well if I was outrageous in my protests and chatisement for being the subject of gossip when I am never anything but open and willing to join in, then tough luck. It stinks and those who I confronted should hang their heads in shame and apologise as publicly as they tried to humiliate me in that chatroom.
I can assure you I have no intentions of getting my vagina out to prove it. I do like the webcam though and like to talk via that so feel free to come and chat.
You either believe me or you don't. Keep your paranoia to yourself. If you respond with history and examples of people who have pretended to be a woman then thats all it is - your anecdotal evidence and is NOT applicable to me nor will I be the whipping 'boy' for all HONEST women around here.
I will interact on this website as I choose without explaining myself to anyone. Live with it.
As a new member back then, I was viewed with suspicion and it soon became clear why very few women feel welcome enough to stay around. It seems in the chatrooms a certain core group start spreading rumours, because of their own paranoia that no woman could interact on this site with articulation wit and charm and therefore can't be female! Historically I have been informed that this doubt occured because a few unsavouries have pretended to be female in order to chat up men. We are now the victims of this minority and have to have all methods of proof that we are indeed women! How crass is that?
Undeterred I got a webcam and came back. Easy peasy talk one on one and allay all fears that I could be a man. Not as simple as that. The empty vessels making the most noise, although invited to, do not come and check for themselves, but are content to set the rumour mill going again.
I go into the chatroom and try to liven it up - I have seen many people do the same thing but it is just one long round of trying to break this hard core of members who 'rule the roost'. Others join in but are met with sarcastic comments for daring to step outside of the norm - which is (as far as my experience goes) men talking ad nauseum about the size of their dicks, when it is obvious they are in there everyday and have memorised every single centimetre of erection, flaccidity and semi known to man. Is this all you are capable of chatroom boys? You can check out EVERYONES vitals by looking at their profile or talking in ims. Im not dictating the agenda in the chatroom (unlike some) but can't it just lighten up a little and those old hands make an effort to be more welcoming?
I left the chatroom today and I was gossiped about and my womanhood dissed. Thats not nice guys. I went back and spoke DIRECTLY to you after someone contacted me on mns to tell me what was going on. It ruffled a few feathers but hey - as my signature says Some peoples idea of free speech is that they can talk freely about anything, but when someone answers back its an outrage. Well if I was outrageous in my protests and chatisement for being the subject of gossip when I am never anything but open and willing to join in, then tough luck. It stinks and those who I confronted should hang their heads in shame and apologise as publicly as they tried to humiliate me in that chatroom.
I can assure you I have no intentions of getting my vagina out to prove it. I do like the webcam though and like to talk via that so feel free to come and chat.
You either believe me or you don't. Keep your paranoia to yourself. If you respond with history and examples of people who have pretended to be a woman then thats all it is - your anecdotal evidence and is NOT applicable to me nor will I be the whipping 'boy' for all HONEST women around here.
I will interact on this website as I choose without explaining myself to anyone. Live with it.