Dear Maria, I am so sorry I haven't seen you online, It is a right shame that I have to teach you this way but it seems that there is no other way of doing it. I want to help you as best I can which means telling me how it goes is vitally important. Keeping a good record of how it went will help me know whats going on. You should keep track of how you feel physically before you start, how aroused you are when you attempt squirting, how long you spent trying to squirt, how long you spent masturbating, how long ago since you last tried, etc. These thing will help me deduce maybe what is going wrong; It'll be hard considering I'm not there to encourage or answer questions on the spot for you. When, and not if, we get you to squirt know how much and how large an orgasm you have will help us keep track of your progress and help me building a routine for you. Any video footage or pictures will help me immensely whether they are successful or unsuccessful attempts at squirting. I am so sorry that it has taken as long as it has to reply to you, I have been busy with real life events.
Squirting
I'm sure as you have already tried to squirt, I'm sure you already know a lot of this but I'm going to cover it just in case something vitally important you have missed.
The first thing you need to know about squirting is that it won't work if you are worrying about it too much. You need to be totally relaxed and in a position where you are totally comfortable. This includes simple things like what you are lying on and the temperature to more complex things like how much time you have and the pressure of people potentially watching you. To improve your chances of squirting I reconmend going to the toilet before attempting as this will mean you will be more comfortable lying down and you'll know that you won't urinate, which is very useful later on. Another thing to consider is what will happen if you do squirt? The bed will get wet if you manage it and you may not realise it but you are probably worrying about it. By simply placing a towel between your legs and slightly underneath you, you will find that you can be more relaxed whilst you attempt to squirt. Don't be concerned with the size and quantity of the squirt. You have no way of knowing how big or small it will be but all of this is totally irrelevant, none of it matters. What is important is that you enjoy it, squirting is a totally selfish act and should be enjoyed by you alone. Make sure you give yourself plently of time to get yourself aroused and in the mood to squirt, it won't work if you a rushed. make sure that you aren't tired either, as you get more tired you get more stressed about everything so make sure you are getting plenty of sleep. Despite what a lot of people say, all girls can squirt so don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
To conclude, this is a time for you to enjoy so get comfortable and relax so you can enjoy yourself.
Before you even attempt to squirt, you need to be turned on. Now this varies a lot between girls but there isn't a method that shouldn't get you prepared for squirting. Make sure you get nice and wet, and really aroused. Whatever you do though, don't tire yourself out. Just gentle play to begin with, make sure everything is stimulated. This includes your breasts, nipples, belly, legs; caress yourself everywhere as everything is sensitive. Stimulate your mind too, watch some porn or if that isn't to your liking, listen to an erotic story. You could try scented candles, something you like that isn't too overwhelmingly powerful. Make sure that spend plenty of time warming up your vagina as well, play with your clit, stroke and finger yourself. When you feel you are ready to try squirting then you should move on.
First you must find your G-spot which is located about 1 to 3 inches inside on the anterior (top) vaginal wall. It is very sensitive to tactile stimulation so shouldn't be hard to find, it'll be a spot that feels better than anywhere else. If my description to find it is insatifactory, try googleing it. Once you have found it you need to massage it gently at first, and build up the intensity, letting the G-spot aclimatise to the pleasure. Pacing yourself is really important. Rushing it will mean your body won't be ready to squirt when you want it too and going to slow will only tire yourself out (mentally and physically). Judging the speed will be up to you, but I reconmend you keep yourself at the edge of orgasm, not quite there but given a small push will be take you over this edge. The best hand technique for having this quantity of control and the ability to produce the intense pleasure you need to produce is actually fairly simple. Place your middle and ring fingers on your g-spot then move your entire hand up and down instead of in and out while pushing gently on your abdomen, slightly above your vagina. This works phonomenomly well because this plays with your g-spot whilst putting pressure on the glands that produce the fluid when you squirt. By altering the speed at which you are moving your hand and by wiggling your fingers slightly on your g-spot you will able to control the quantity of stimulation even at such a high level. The faster you go, the more the stimulation and when you reach the correct level of stimulation and arousal, you will be able to squirt. You should aim to continue the increase the level of stimulation the entire way through attempting to squirt. As you move your hand up and down faster and faster you may notice a that you'll feel the need to urinate. This, hopefully, should be a sign that you are going to squirt but do not stop quite yet, continue increasing the stimulation. The feeling should become stronger as you increase stimulation and for your first attempt do not try to hold it in for too long and definitely not until it becomes uncomfortable to hold in. Letting go of the squirt is almost always the hardest part of squirting but as you have tried already you may find this easier than most girls. You have to just relax and let it come out, don't attempt to force it, pushing will not work at all. Once you let go, your body will do the rest. All you have to do is enjoy it.
With repect to routines and exercises, you have to take a lot into moderation due to the nature of the operation. You can't do it if you aren't in the mood to, so don't force yourself to have a "practice". Squirting frequently is more important than regularly, if you catch my drift. Squirting will fit nicely on the end of a session of masturbation, especially when you are doing it successfully, so if you are going to stroke yourself, have a go at squirting as well. If you don't masturbate that day, don't attempt squirting that day, simple as that.
Exercises-wise there is a little more to say. If you are looking for larger, more explosive orgasms and squirts then what you need to do is when you reach the point at which you feel like you could comfortably squirt you hold on and keep raising the intensity of the stimulation. This give your body more time to make more fluid. This will make it more uncomfortable but the longer you put up with it the larger the squirting orgasm will be. But be warned, there is a differents between uncomfortable and painful. If you feel sore or painful either from rubbing your g-spot too much or holding fluids back too long stop immediately and don't try again until the pain completely dissappears.
If you want to increase your squirt's volume then you need to increase the size of the gland that creates and stores it before you squirt. The only way you can do this is frequent practice of squirting and it will occur naturally. Suppliments (you'll have to research yourself, at this current time I don't know myself) could be taken but I'm sure a balanced diet should provide everything you need. Considering the squirt contains mostly water, drinking plenty will increase the volume to a certain extent too.
Improving stamina is fairly easy, just see how many you can do one after another. Don't push too hard, you don't want to hurt or damage anything. Keeping a record of this will help you see how far you've come.
Maria, I hope that this helps you, I apologise again for how long it took to get back to you. I hope to see some results soon
-Florence
Squirting
I'm sure as you have already tried to squirt, I'm sure you already know a lot of this but I'm going to cover it just in case something vitally important you have missed.
The first thing you need to know about squirting is that it won't work if you are worrying about it too much. You need to be totally relaxed and in a position where you are totally comfortable. This includes simple things like what you are lying on and the temperature to more complex things like how much time you have and the pressure of people potentially watching you. To improve your chances of squirting I reconmend going to the toilet before attempting as this will mean you will be more comfortable lying down and you'll know that you won't urinate, which is very useful later on. Another thing to consider is what will happen if you do squirt? The bed will get wet if you manage it and you may not realise it but you are probably worrying about it. By simply placing a towel between your legs and slightly underneath you, you will find that you can be more relaxed whilst you attempt to squirt. Don't be concerned with the size and quantity of the squirt. You have no way of knowing how big or small it will be but all of this is totally irrelevant, none of it matters. What is important is that you enjoy it, squirting is a totally selfish act and should be enjoyed by you alone. Make sure you give yourself plently of time to get yourself aroused and in the mood to squirt, it won't work if you a rushed. make sure that you aren't tired either, as you get more tired you get more stressed about everything so make sure you are getting plenty of sleep. Despite what a lot of people say, all girls can squirt so don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
To conclude, this is a time for you to enjoy so get comfortable and relax so you can enjoy yourself.
Before you even attempt to squirt, you need to be turned on. Now this varies a lot between girls but there isn't a method that shouldn't get you prepared for squirting. Make sure you get nice and wet, and really aroused. Whatever you do though, don't tire yourself out. Just gentle play to begin with, make sure everything is stimulated. This includes your breasts, nipples, belly, legs; caress yourself everywhere as everything is sensitive. Stimulate your mind too, watch some porn or if that isn't to your liking, listen to an erotic story. You could try scented candles, something you like that isn't too overwhelmingly powerful. Make sure that spend plenty of time warming up your vagina as well, play with your clit, stroke and finger yourself. When you feel you are ready to try squirting then you should move on.
First you must find your G-spot which is located about 1 to 3 inches inside on the anterior (top) vaginal wall. It is very sensitive to tactile stimulation so shouldn't be hard to find, it'll be a spot that feels better than anywhere else. If my description to find it is insatifactory, try googleing it. Once you have found it you need to massage it gently at first, and build up the intensity, letting the G-spot aclimatise to the pleasure. Pacing yourself is really important. Rushing it will mean your body won't be ready to squirt when you want it too and going to slow will only tire yourself out (mentally and physically). Judging the speed will be up to you, but I reconmend you keep yourself at the edge of orgasm, not quite there but given a small push will be take you over this edge. The best hand technique for having this quantity of control and the ability to produce the intense pleasure you need to produce is actually fairly simple. Place your middle and ring fingers on your g-spot then move your entire hand up and down instead of in and out while pushing gently on your abdomen, slightly above your vagina. This works phonomenomly well because this plays with your g-spot whilst putting pressure on the glands that produce the fluid when you squirt. By altering the speed at which you are moving your hand and by wiggling your fingers slightly on your g-spot you will able to control the quantity of stimulation even at such a high level. The faster you go, the more the stimulation and when you reach the correct level of stimulation and arousal, you will be able to squirt. You should aim to continue the increase the level of stimulation the entire way through attempting to squirt. As you move your hand up and down faster and faster you may notice a that you'll feel the need to urinate. This, hopefully, should be a sign that you are going to squirt but do not stop quite yet, continue increasing the stimulation. The feeling should become stronger as you increase stimulation and for your first attempt do not try to hold it in for too long and definitely not until it becomes uncomfortable to hold in. Letting go of the squirt is almost always the hardest part of squirting but as you have tried already you may find this easier than most girls. You have to just relax and let it come out, don't attempt to force it, pushing will not work at all. Once you let go, your body will do the rest. All you have to do is enjoy it.
With repect to routines and exercises, you have to take a lot into moderation due to the nature of the operation. You can't do it if you aren't in the mood to, so don't force yourself to have a "practice". Squirting frequently is more important than regularly, if you catch my drift. Squirting will fit nicely on the end of a session of masturbation, especially when you are doing it successfully, so if you are going to stroke yourself, have a go at squirting as well. If you don't masturbate that day, don't attempt squirting that day, simple as that.
Exercises-wise there is a little more to say. If you are looking for larger, more explosive orgasms and squirts then what you need to do is when you reach the point at which you feel like you could comfortably squirt you hold on and keep raising the intensity of the stimulation. This give your body more time to make more fluid. This will make it more uncomfortable but the longer you put up with it the larger the squirting orgasm will be. But be warned, there is a differents between uncomfortable and painful. If you feel sore or painful either from rubbing your g-spot too much or holding fluids back too long stop immediately and don't try again until the pain completely dissappears.
If you want to increase your squirt's volume then you need to increase the size of the gland that creates and stores it before you squirt. The only way you can do this is frequent practice of squirting and it will occur naturally. Suppliments (you'll have to research yourself, at this current time I don't know myself) could be taken but I'm sure a balanced diet should provide everything you need. Considering the squirt contains mostly water, drinking plenty will increase the volume to a certain extent too.
Improving stamina is fairly easy, just see how many you can do one after another. Don't push too hard, you don't want to hurt or damage anything. Keeping a record of this will help you see how far you've come.
Maria, I hope that this helps you, I apologise again for how long it took to get back to you. I hope to see some results soon
-Florence