First off, I am the overweight guy in this situation. Total bear type, have been since I first got with another man.
After years of having multiple partners of a variety of body types (and ages) I still find it almost strange that young athletic men want an older heavier guy. Heavier guys being into similarly heavy guys makes sense to me, I also love heavy men (but I also always loved BBW when I was younger, still do I guess).
I dunno, I guess it's how bear types tend to look like they have smaller dicks since some of it gets covered by fat, their asses can look 'weird' (at least not nicely rounded and shapely), and heavy guts hanging down. The number of times when I've taken my clothes off (or he did) and their reaction of joy and lust always surprises me. Young guys have rubbed all over my body, enjoying every inch of it and I still can't stop thinking to myself..."why?". I'm sure most of this has to do with my own insecurities.
Anyway, not much of blog post but just felt like getting it off my chest.
After years of having multiple partners of a variety of body types (and ages) I still find it almost strange that young athletic men want an older heavier guy. Heavier guys being into similarly heavy guys makes sense to me, I also love heavy men (but I also always loved BBW when I was younger, still do I guess).
I dunno, I guess it's how bear types tend to look like they have smaller dicks since some of it gets covered by fat, their asses can look 'weird' (at least not nicely rounded and shapely), and heavy guts hanging down. The number of times when I've taken my clothes off (or he did) and their reaction of joy and lust always surprises me. Young guys have rubbed all over my body, enjoying every inch of it and I still can't stop thinking to myself..."why?". I'm sure most of this has to do with my own insecurities.
Anyway, not much of blog post but just felt like getting it off my chest.