stories of being too big

I dated a girl who seemed perfect! She was really cute 21 years old (I was 23) had a good head on her shoulders, responsible, caring, we got along great. After about a month I started getting upset about the lack of affection she showed towards me. When she first saw my penis she said "God you should do porn" as she wrapped both hands around it and still had 2 inches to deal with. She said my penis scared her. I was horrified. She said for me to do her when she was really drunk. I can't do that, if the only way a girl will have sex with me is if she is drunk, I view it as her not saying yes the alcohol is saying yes, like 25% rape. I am a pleaser and only enjoy myself if I can pleasure the woman many times over. We stayed together for a total of 9 months with no sexual contact. We were perfect except for that. We stayed friends and 8 months later tragedy struck her life and she was homeless. She didn't tell me I found out through a friend. I insisted she live with me untill she could get back on her feet. I had 2 other roomates but it was my house. for two weeks she shared my bed plutonically. Then she started getting friendly with a roomate. He asked me if he could pursue her and I said sure go ahead. She said she didn't like him anyways. Well she started liking him and now she shared his bed. he was only 6 inches (sorry not only, but you know what I mean) so they were having sex regularly. This began to bother me, it shouldn't but I couldn't help it. I knew we could not work out together and I was good friends with both of them, I should of been happy for them, but I was jealous of him because he was a bette fit for her. She told everyone in our circle about my size and had regular discussions involving that around ALL my friends. Making things uncomfortable with them, and I became the topic of discussions where I work as a server at a nice restaurant. A picture of me and my erect penis was passed around all over. Of course we had 5 or 6 gay men there too, but they were extra nice to me. I'd think a girls knowledge of my size would generally help in picking her up, but it just made things awkward. Anyone with a similar story? Anyone with thoughts?

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Two things here?
She is a scumbag for her actions, but where did she get the picture to show around? Something here does not seem right in that you are good hearted place a roof over her head when she is down and then somewhere she comes up with a picture of you that is sexually provocative and she makes this public?

This sounds to me like a guy being "played" or "used" for some purpose and when she decides that something she is more interested in comes along, she not only is ungrateful she plays games that are unkind on this level.

I would ask for the picture from her in a spontaneous way and if she does not surrender it I think that the magic word "Lawyer" needs to come into your vocabulary, and I would deal with her that way.
 
I appreciated your story very much, it's well told and sensitive. The way you tell it is a sobering reminder that nothing in life is as clear as we think it might be, or should be. Knowing your feelings makes you more of a man than is told merely by your cock size. The real sex organ is between our ears, not between our legs.
 
I dont dude but that really blows! I think you should have pursued her wishes and tried things when she was a little tipsy. Not deunk though.
 
yup, same with me and my first encounter with my first large size. i'm super tiny and short a 5'1 total to my fb's 6'2 and 8in+.
i was def was scared and shocked the first time i saw his. but we slowly worked on it, he was gently and never forced himself or was demanding. we took it slow and foreplayed a lot before he tried putting it in. it was very scary the first time and a lil painful but his sweet gently inching in gave way to rough and the best sex i have ever have.
and i know his pics have been seen by a lot bc another girl b4 had shown it around, and ex liked to try and hook up with him or their friends who had heard tried to get with him as well. it made him feel awkward but he handled it well
 

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