I dated a girl who seemed perfect! She was really cute 21 years old (I was 23) had a good head on her shoulders, responsible, caring, we got along great. After about a month I started getting upset about the lack of affection she showed towards me. When she first saw my penis she said "God you should do porn" as she wrapped both hands around it and still had 2 inches to deal with. She said my penis scared her. I was horrified. She said for me to do her when she was really drunk. I can't do that, if the only way a girl will have sex with me is if she is drunk, I view it as her not saying yes the alcohol is saying yes, like 25% rape. I am a pleaser and only enjoy myself if I can pleasure the woman many times over. We stayed together for a total of 9 months with no sexual contact. We were perfect except for that. We stayed friends and 8 months later tragedy struck her life and she was homeless. She didn't tell me I found out through a friend. I insisted she live with me untill she could get back on her feet. I had 2 other roomates but it was my house. for two weeks she shared my bed plutonically. Then she started getting friendly with a roomate. He asked me if he could pursue her and I said sure go ahead. She said she didn't like him anyways. Well she started liking him and now she shared his bed. he was only 6 inches (sorry not only, but you know what I mean) so they were having sex regularly. This began to bother me, it shouldn't but I couldn't help it. I knew we could not work out together and I was good friends with both of them, I should of been happy for them, but I was jealous of him because he was a bette fit for her. She told everyone in our circle about my size and had regular discussions involving that around ALL my friends. Making things uncomfortable with them, and I became the topic of discussions where I work as a server at a nice restaurant. A picture of me and my erect penis was passed around all over. Of course we had 5 or 6 gay men there too, but they were extra nice to me. I'd think a girls knowledge of my size would generally help in picking her up, but it just made things awkward. Anyone with a similar story? Anyone with thoughts?