Straight...

I've been on this site for quite a while, but there still seem to be a lot of people who aren't happy with their sexual orientation.

Now let me set one thing straight before I start, I don't care if you are straight, gay, bi or only into sexual pleasure with mature cheddar. I really don't mind, and with the exception of those with the cheddar proclivity, it won't make me look at you any differently. I have gay friends, I have bi friends. To me they are still friends.

So, could someone explain to me how we get blogs and posts saying things like "Straight guys first experience with a man", and "Would any straight guys let me blow them?".
Now surely this isn't too hard a concept, and please, someone correct me if I have missed something, but if you as a man gain any kind of sexual pleasure from another man, you can't call yourself 100% straight!

If you've only ever been with girls, but are curious about men, then surely that's bi-curious. If you are active with both, then that is Bi-sexual. If you only like guys, then that is gay/homosexual.
Sure there are some divisions of "prefer guys to girl" and "girls to guys" in the Bi middle ground, but over as far as I can see, that pretty much covers everything!

So please, guys, just lay off the "I'm straight but..." kind of posts, and just use the correct label! The only person you are kidding is yourself. You are what you are, just be happy with it and please use the correct term!

That way, if everyone was correctly described, I wouldn't keep getting messages like "I know you're 100% straight but would you let me suck your cock"... Now do I really need to answer that?!

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Really, I just wish labels and phobias would go away. Then "can I suck your cock" or "want to go out" could both be answered with "No Thanks" or "sure"

Remember, some think of orientation to be connected with emotional feelings. Can't fall in love with someone of the same sex= straight. Can't fall in love with someone of the opposite sex=gay/lesbian. Can fall in love with someone of both-bi. None of it based on how you get you rocks off.

Make yourself a generic turndown response like "No Thanks Dude, Women Only!
 
okay but at the same time it is curiosity that gets the better of people and want to know the "straight but"type of questions and aout the blow jobs as long as you do not touch him or let him have anal sex with you and are not romantically or attracted to him it could surprise you
hope i have not given any one the shits but if i have so be it
 
@67texas
I'd have to fly on the wild side mate! I'm in the UK!

@countryGuy63
Now that is a different way of looking at it!
I don't actually get too many offers, I just saw a couple of posts tonight that made me wish people would just accept who they are and describe themselves correctly!

@srealfox
Errrr... What? :-/
If I'm not attracted to the person doing the blowing, it's not going to work! Be that a man or Susan Boyle!
 
I don't mess with straight guys even when they are at the gay bar picking up straight women who go to gay bars. Maybe, I should go the straight bars to pick up the gay guys. :rolleyes: Hehehe.

Anyway, I am respectful of people's sexual orientations and likes. I am gay. I prefer to hook up with consensually minded white guys who find me just appealing as I do them. I don't hate any black man. I am black myself but here is the clincher: In my locale, the black men are kinda homophobic...but I never put myself out there for those guys. But it seems like black guys I don't even know or have not even met don't like me. I can read the body language...and the silent treatment. But I think that it is cool because like I have explained before, I am not hitting on them. But you get the psychic attacks with the ostracism. :rolleyes: But they think that the silent treatment is supposed to hurt me...but I am living my life. And after all, more pussy for them and I am not bothering them...I am happy in my corner getting some white cock and mancunt on occasion. :biggrin1:
 
I consider myself essentially str8. Have never sucked cock or bottomed. Am into muscle worship, but only with a limited number of gym and former-college buds. Yeah, that includes a lot of kissing, licking and tonguing, pit and pec play, mutual jerking to climax....but we just consider it a testosterone release as we all prefer eating pussy and fucking women and don't consider ourselves, bi-, gay or curious. The reason I'm here is cause by nature I'm an exhibitionist. I'm not into men or other guys cocks or what some of you call boi pussies.
 
The guys who say that they are "straight" yet have sex with men like oral sex or jack off or other things, or they want to do these things and fantasize about them are really just closeted. It doesn't matter if they haven't sucked cock or been fucked either. They could be bisexual or sometimes even gay but they're not heterosexual.

I try to avoid gay/bisexual/queer male message boards since you get lots of bi/gay men who fantasize and claim that they've had sex with real "straight" men and it's all rather silly.
 
@country

Right on the head, labels are an abomination!! And it's up to the individual to describe who they are, NOT YOU!! If they're straight and labels matter, then they are straight by their definition. YOU HAVE TO RESPECT THAT. You can only speak for yourself when it comes to defining who you are and what you choose to be. It's been too long that society sets the standard of what you prefer to identify with. People don't have the right to decide what you are, only you can decide for yourself as an individual!!

I'm off my soap box now LOL
 
BeardedWoof;bt16200 said:
The guys who say that they are "straight" yet have sex with men like oral sex or jack off or other things, or they want to do these things and fantasize about them are really just closeted. It doesn't matter if they haven't sucked cock or been fucked either. They could be bisexual or sometimes even gay but they're not heterosexual.

I agree with this poster.

Funny that don't we see posts from men who state that they are 100% gay on their profiles say things like, "I'm 100% gay and really only dig men but I like to feel women's bodies, lick them, have them suck me, fantasize about them but I AM NOT BI-SEXUAL!!"
 
@sumyungguy
It's not a label, or any kind of insult, it's an accurate description!
I don't describe myself as 8 foot tall, because I'm not!
Oh hang on, maybe accurate measurements aren't the best example on this site! lol!
 
So what is "gay" "bisexual" "straight" "Bi-curious". Are they just words that mean things, oh I mean, LABELS?!! I'm not saying that they carry a negative denotation, I'm saying it's useless to use them because sex of the human nature is too complex IN GENERAL to be defined and shouldn't be limited to only these words or labels or "descriptions". And what's accurate for you, may not be accurate for others.
 

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