Strange experience with a straight friend

I had a strange experience last night with a straight married friend and was wondering if anyone has had anything similar happen?

I have a neighbour who I often hang out with. When his wife goes out with the girls we usually head down to a local pub for a couple of beer and to shoot some pool. I have never discussed my sexuality with this dude as Im not one of these people that finds it necessary to broadcast what I get up to in the bedroom publicly. Him being married and straight was even more reason for me to respect our friendship by keeping that sort of thing out of the relationship. Well this is where it gets strange - last night we headed down to our usual haunt for a couple of brewskies and a game of pool or two. I did not think we had that much to drink, but I seem to have lost track of some of the evening. I remember playing a game and then there is this void! The next thing I became aware of was we were back at my place in bed and the dude is banging me. I don't have a hangover today, so it cant have been the drink. Im wondering if I was slipped something in a drink. Has this happened to anyone else?

I had no idea he was packing such a monster!, I'm very tender today. Think its going to take awhile to recover! I got a text message from this mate this morning, telling me how much he enjoyed last night and asking me when could we do it again. Im a little worried about the fact that he is married, I don't want to fuck that up. Suggestions on going forward would be welcome. There is no way that I could take him again anytime soon anyway, so will need to put him off till Iv had time to recover. :tongue:

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Strontium;bt110152 said:
If he's married, I'd stay clear. It's unfair on the wife. Furthermore, things could turn nasty.
I agree with this. I couldn't do anything with someone who was in a relationship of any sort.
 
I have to admit that I agree with you guys, that's the part that makes this so difficult. So how do I get around the situation without it having an impact on our friendship? How do I say no after what happened last night without it stuffing up what we have as friends?
 
Unfortunately somehow he 'must' have had a hand in it. Somehow he 'knew' about you and facilitated it. Also he 'liked' it. IF you deny him he could cause problems. I'd tread on eggshells and try to find a way out of this without ruining both his marriage and your friendship !
 
"I have a neighbour who I often hang out with. When his wife goes out with the girls we usually head down to a local pub for a couple of beer and to shoot some pool. I have never discussed my sexuality with this dude as Im not one of these people that finds it necessary to broadcast what I get up to in the bedroom publicly. Him being married and straight was even more reason for me to respect our friendship by keeping that sort of thing out of the relationship. Well this is where it gets strange - last night we headed down to our usual haunt for a couple of brewskies and a game of pool or two. I did not think we had that much to drink, but I seem to have lost track of some of the evening. I remember playing a game and then there is this void! The next thing I became aware of was we were back at my place in bed and the dude is banging me. I don't have a hangover today, so it cant have been the drink. Im wondering if I was slipped something in a drink. Has this happened to anyone else? :eek::eek::eek:

I had no idea he was packing such a monster!, I'm very tender today. Think its going to take awhile to recover! I got a text message from this mate this morning, telling me how much he enjoyed last night and asking me when could we do it again. Im a little worried about the fact that he is married, I don't want to fuck that up. Suggestions on going forward would be welcome. There is no way that I could take him again anytime soon anyway, so will need to put him off till Iv had time to recover. :tongue:"--
BradMc


That is pretty creepy. I guess you are okay with that man doing that to you.

If a straight guy did that to me and he was supposed to be a friend...I don't think that we would be friends anymore.

 
If you enjoyed it, tell him so but tell him you don't want to do it again. Say something like you were always curious as to having sex with a straight guy and now that itch is scratched or something like that.

Sklar
 
invisibleman;bt110159 said:
"I have a neighbour who I often hang out with. When his wife goes out with the girls we usually head down to a local pub for a couple of beer and to shoot some pool. I have never discussed my sexuality with this dude as Im not one of these people that finds it necessary to broadcast what I get up to in the bedroom publicly. Him being married and straight was even more reason for me to respect our friendship by keeping that sort of thing out of the relationship. Well this is where it gets strange - last night we headed down to our usual haunt for a couple of brewskies and a game of pool or two.I did not think we had that much to drink, but I seem to have lost track of some of the evening. I remember playing a game and then there is this void! The next thing I became aware of was we were back at my place in bed and the dude is banging me. I don't have a hangover today, so it cant have been the drink. Im wondering if I was slipped something in a drink.Has this happened to anyone else? :eek::eek::eek:

I had no idea he was packing such a monster!, I'm very tender today. Think its going to take awhile to recover! I got a text message from this mate this morning, telling me how much he enjoyed last night and asking me when could we do it again. Im a little worried about the fact that he is married, I don't want to fuck that up. Suggestions on going forward would be welcome. There is no way that I could take him again anytime soon anyway, so will need to put him off till Iv had time to recover. :tongue:"--
BradMc


That is pretty creepy. I guess you are okay with that man doing that to you.

If a straight guy did that to me and he was supposed to be a friend...I don't think that we would be friends anymore.


I have not really had time to think about it, I guess it is actually quite creepy. If he was not so damn good looking, 26, fit and a good mate, I would have felt very differently about it and reacted differently. Without fully understanding what went down Monday night, I cant really jump to any conclusions.
 
hey all the traffic is one way here, You liked it, go for it again, if you get a chance tell him you don't need the drug in the beer!!1 soreness goes, and lust remains, asses adjust well to size. No-one is hurt if you both stay cool. it happens all the time, be adult.
 
being jumped by straight mates is pretty frequent, ofen on stag nights I'm told
 
maduro1;bt110199 said:
hey all the traffic is one way here, You liked it, go for it again, if you get a chance tell him you don't need the drug in the beer!!1 soreness goes, and lust remains, asses adjust well to size. No-one is hurt if you both stay cool. it happens all the time, be adult.
Funny you should say that, soreness gone and lust remains :wink:
Here is the latest. We got together for a chill out last night. Had a deep one2one. A few things still dont make sence though. We only had 3 bottles of beer each and on the third decided to end our game and head home. It was at that point that it got fuzzy for me. I have not pushed my mate on the old Mickey Finn thing, but I did suggest that there may have been something in one of my drinks and tried to see how he would react. His reaction was sort of "No WAY!, who would do that?" so I let it slide. The conversation went on to what progressed from there. The whole situation just gets more complicated. He tells me that he has fancied me for years and that he is in an unhappy sexless marrage due to feelings he has been hiding his whole life. Now that he has tasted the forbidden fruit, he realises that this is what he has always wanted. I have explained to him that I cant come between him and his misses and that we should maybe take some time out. To which he responded, would not make any difference to the way he feels. Im now unsure of what is right, he seems pretty sure of what he wants?
 
Dude get over it. Keep fucking him and keep it on the low that way u can get some dick and send him home to the wife.
 
Well here we are a month and a half later. Cheers jazzyg4u I appreciate your input. I had actually forgotten abut this post and loads has happened since then.
To be fair I'm quite surprised at some of the comments that I have received on this blog. Considering the site we are all a part of, where most are here to explore further sexual experiences and where monogamy kinda takes a back seat for awhile. Or is there one rule for one and another of others?
My relationship with my Swedish mate has actually developed into a relationship. The sex has been pretty wild as we explore things for him for the first time. The one thing that really struck me through this experience, is how less adventurous we tend to become as we understand our own sexuality. So the whole experience has been refreshing to say the least. We meet up a couple of nights a week and hold no bars back. We have become extremely comfortable with each other and its great having a no strings attached mate to have a little fun with. Yes our relationship started off with the big question of whether or not the dude had slipped me a mickey-finn, but since then we have had a lot of time to talk and I am quite confident that this was not the case. As he said much the same thing happened to him that night. We have heard stories from others that it has happened to other people at that pub, so I guess its a place to avoid.
This is not my first affair with a married man, so lets not pretend that this sort of thing does not go on out there. It is the first time that I have not been able to recall how it happened, but now that it has I'm quite happy with where we are. Where do we go from here? Well I'm trying my best to encourage him to stay with his wife and to try make things work. Even if that means that we go back to being just mates without the sex (although I hope it does not come to that). Only time will tell :rolleyes:
 

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