Switching roles

I drove hours with an uncomfortable boner in between my legs, both remembering the good times I had with JP back when I was younger and imagining what was about to happen.
JP is that guy that taught me pretty much everything I know about sex and pleasure. I told in a previous post how we got to meet which was both a pretty organic way and a pretty abrupt way to meet someone who was going to take my virginity, or at least my anal virginity.
In our culture, having sex with people of the same gender really isn't a taboo at all, it's a normal thing to do. I know my dad has only had sex with one woman in his whole life for instance but did and still does have sex with guys from time to time.
Of course, as you may suspect, the only rule is that the guy needs to be "clean" which means cut and pierced like every single one of us in my area. It made it pretty difficult for us, members of my generation, to find suitable sex partners. There were simply not that many of them outside the extended family. Sometimes we joked about it. Normally the rule should also be for us to remain virgin of straight sex and any contact with our genitals before mariage, this includes jacking off. Needless to say, that last one is hard but I still could jack off my butt hole and reach anal orgasm, I could also be penetrates whiteout jeopardising my virginity. I did ave sex with one girl (multiple times) at age 15 but I've been good ever since. So my wife is only the second one (all the pussies I licked and fingered don't count). Sexual satisfaction, orgasm, relieve, are crucial part of our way of thinking. Older generations, like my great grandparents for instance, actually believed that basically cumming was the equivalent of praying. I know all of these things for having been told here and there but these animists beliefs are not practiced at all anymore. The way of thinking remains, though. I mean, my grandpa told me that his first jerk off ever happened in a circle jerk with many other family members, in the woods for Christ's sakes! And in the ass, that goes without saying. Same for Dad, except that it was just him and grandpa. As far as I'm concerned I had my first jerk off very "normally" in my bed, alone, only because Dad decided to have that ceremony after I turned 18. But he did advise me to jerk off at least once a day back when we had "the talk".
So in this sense, having sex with another person would be the ultimate religious act, having sex with a woman being at the top of the pyramid. So both the man and the woman should save themselves for that moment. Yet' it's way easier for women because they can just grab any other girl willing to have sex and fuck to their contempt. For us, guys, living in Europe in the 21st century, it's a whole other tray of issues. As I told you, it seems to get better though. There are parts of Europe, I'm thinking about that town where one of my uncle lives, where getting cut and pierced seemed to have become a trend. I'm not surprised by that. In comparison with mainstream western culture, our way of life is way more fun and way more accepting. Now, what were the odds for a micro-culture coming from a minute tribe on the other side of the world to spread like wildfire ? Well...in all fairness, when my great grandpa met this tribe, he was accompanied by one of his cousins and three friends with which he fought in the army. All of them got pierced and cut (if needed) and all of them embraced this way of living even after coming back home. Three of them married women from there and the remaining two married white women without going back to mainstream. Some of these families were more observant of traditions (like mine, at least at the beginning) some were more low key but all had lots of children. I mean, we're talking about sexually liberated people at a time when there was no birth control ! People in my family still have a crazy number of kids. My older brother isn't even 40 and he already has 3 !
And all these families lived around the same (rural) area. They were also all pretty affluent, not billionaires but definitely amongst the wealthiest ones in the area. I guess all of this lead to the current situation in which it is not uncommon in certain places, to find "clean" guys of all ages, shapes, sizes and colors. That and the fact that it trended so you never know whether someone is cut and pierced by tradition or just because they thought it looked better (or felt better, there's also that parameter). And there's also the half-way explanation which I call "the domino effect" : whenever an older guy decides to get cut and pierced, if he has a son and lets him know, the son will follow 90% of the time. I say 90% because I'm sure not every son follows but I'm yet to see an example of a clean guy with an unclean son that's older than 18.

JP is actually a prime example of the "domino effect" but more on the "rougher" side. My grandpa used to hang out with his dad, one day his dad decided to get cut and pierced, probably because he wanted to fool around with the others or because he felt tired of being the odd man out when naked at the beach. So he took both himself and his two sons, the first one was 17 and JP was 15, to the clinic. They got done at the same time, no questions asked. Having the mentality of older guys, JP said that he was glad he did not really get a choice otherwise he would have never dared. I asked him "So what?" and he looked at me as if I had just taken a shit on the coffee table and said " What do you mean "so what" ? Have you ever seen an unclean dick? You've been at the gym just like me and you know it ain't pretty!"
I replied "That's the way Nature makes us though...".
I personnally think clean dicks are 100 times better than natural ones but only because it's a personal preference, I don't mean it to be an obligation for the whole world or an absolute criteria for anything. It's just a preference. But older guys don't think that way and that's why I was being "the devil's advocate" too JP. His reply was exactly the one I always hear when this conversation topic arises :
- And do you let your hair grow without cutting it? Something has to differ between a human being and an animal ! Even more so, between a kid and man. When I see uncut guys naked at the gym, their dicks just look like inflated baby dicks and that's not a turnon for most people ! Non mentioning that it's kinda dirty and gross...also, they jack off all the time and cum in a heart beat. It's perverted to take so much pleasure, boys need to be taught restraint especially when they're young. My boys don't jack off their dicks, I taught them it would make them weak and no future wife wants to ride a worn out cock. At this age, jacking off your hole is way healthier.

Needless to say, all of JP's sons got cut and pierced at age 15, no questions asked, domino effect, like I said.

The other cases of domino effect I know are less rough though. Usually it happens because the son asks to get the same and then it happens.

Back to JP :

So, as you may know, I met JP at my uncle's gym. He was there with his son who's extremely good looking and I was there with my dad who knew I was horny and desperate to fuck anybody. Dad decided to start the conversation with JP. Later on, he invited him and his son for lunch. I thought I was going to have ex with the son but that wasn't the plan because Dad is also a horny mofo who had his eyes set on the younger one since the very beginning. The other thing is that two boys the same age having sex is something guys like my dad and JP can't even think of. The one penetrating the other would then lose his virginity and JP is very strict about his boys staying virgin before marriage, like he says, they don't even jack off their dicks.
Dad's goal was to find me an "instructor" and that "instructor" was going to be JP who is a faaaaaaaar better fuck than his son and not only because he has a bigger (yet fairly average) dick, but mainly because he knows what he's doing at a time I didn't. I had sex with his son a couple time but it was not good so I just gave up on him. I also had sex with both of them at the same time a couple times and that was actually way better because JP is a very good teacher so he was fucking a giving pointers at the same time.
After that, years passed without us seeing each other. I guess he thought his job was done.
It was therefore pretty surprising to hear from him after all these years. Inviting me to stay over at his place could have only one meaning. I counted the days between his phone call and the due date.
Right after knocking at the door, I was ready to take off my clothes and let him fuck me anywhere he wanted. With JP there was never any question about who was top and who was bottom, he would never let someone so much younger than him top him and he's good at it.
I honestly thought he would be already fully naked and we would start having sex and bother about dinner later. Well, that's not what happened.


TBC

Comments

I understand the perception that uncut is not understood to be "clean" in your preferred culture, but I am puzzled why it takes being pierced to be fully "clean". It seems that being pierced would lead to more "unclean" situations than not being pierced, unless taking the time to wash at least several times per day. Maybe you can help me understand...
Indy
 
That's just an opinion, there really isn't much to say about it. I think it's more about having sex with a guy who is not pierced that's seen as unclean because only kids are supposed to be this way. I personally associate "being a grown man" with being pierced and I know many others feel the same.
 

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