Thank you nicenycdick and psidom!

So, I did it. I made contact with her immediately...and who'd have thought - we made plans to have a second date soon at a hookah bar. I was nervous because the last time I went on a date in October, the girl made an excuse when I asked her for a second date. I figured that'd happen again or she'd say something like there was no chemistry.

I still have absolutely no idea what any woman would see in me. I mean I told her flat out that I'm bipolar, I live with my parents, I'm sexually inexperienced, and I am not currently working. Heh. But I also tried to balance out all those negatives by telling her I was sharp, creative, and I also copied an excerpt from my poem that indicated I wasn't small downstairs. Yeah, that's probably not a good idea to mention to someone when courting, but I figure I had to play my trump cards to counteract all the red flags.

So, hopefully soon, we will be smoking hookah. And hopefully I won't be craving cigarettes for the next few days afterwards. Hahaha.

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Just some words of advice...

Don't worry about impressing her. She'll either like you or she won't. Don't obsess about your shortcomings...or your attributes, either. She will only want to hear about your poems just so much. I was a singer/songwriter in my younger days and I found, over time, that it was nice to mention, but better to have them ask if they wanted to hear something. Just be yourself...witty, funny, emotional, sincere..whatever makes you what you are.

The best advice I have is to ask about her...it is always an interesting topic for the other person.

Good luck.
 
NND and Psidom are two of the best posters on LPSG, I'm glad you could benefit from their advice!

Congrats, young one! :hug:
 

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