The ceremony

Since I got many questions about all of this, I'll clarify how the procedure of getting cut and pierced goes.
In the past, it used to be different than now. My grandpa, dad and uncles, for instance, got cut by a surgeon then, about two month later (after full recovery) they got pierced by a guy who used to to everyone in the family. It happened at home, all the clean men of the family were invited and then the piercing happened in public in front of everyone. It was followed by a party (and about nine month of recovery). So if I'm counting right, that was a total of almost a year of recovery. It was a lot. Needless to say, the party was more about the guests than the newly clean guy (not very fun). It used to happen as soon as the boy would get any form of body hair that he would then shave consistently until the day he got married. Yet, with time, it started happening later and later and now it happens around the age of consent which is 15 in our country, even later in some families.
I know of households who still proceed this way and have been invited to this kind of ceremony a couple times in my life.
However, nowadays, most of guys don't go through that anymore. We're lucky enough to know several surgeons who are either used to perform it or clean guys themselves. So, basically, when the time comes (that's up to one's father to decide) they just take you to the surgeon who's gonna perform the whole thing under full anaesthesia at a hospital. The recovery time is about nine months and the party happens after that.

In my cousin’s S case, he went to the doctor's to check on his recovery every week. Then, when he said it was all good, he unilaterally decided not to get dressed after his morning shower and went down to have breakfast. His dad took him in his arms and just added "now you just have to become a man up there as well" (referring to his head). If you ask him, he'll say he did not cry hahaha
He threw a party a week later. It's always a bit uncomfortable because people scrutinize and comment on your junk during the whole party. 99.9% of the time their saying something like "he did you a good job", or "very good looking" or "now that's a real man!" and shit like this. It's also a moment to talk about IT very openly. I've been invited to countless parties like that. We talk about sexuality, masturbation, give advice to the newly clean, offer gifts as well. Oftentimes it overlaps with a birthday party but there are gifts even if it doesn't. Those gifts are usually pricier than the ones you would offer/get for a normal birthday. I've seen many watches being gifted (Rollex, Breitling, Cartier, Pater Philippe...), also cars (when the boy was close to driving age), countless MacBooks, IPhones... Also, people who live far away might be more prone to come over than for a random birthday. The rule is that the man of the hour NEVER pays for anything related to the operation, so of course, the dad usually pays but sometimes people are a little tight on money so we all chip in. The jewel is always pure gold or silver, then, after that, it might get changed because some guys want to vary, for aesthetic purposes.
The piercing is not a huge thing at all. I'm saying that because I see some very large and quite frankly scary things online but it usually has nothing to do with that. No matter the type of piercing, it's very thin if not extremely thin, like a sawing needle. Some guys want to increase gauges after that but they are a minority, a really thin minority (no pun intended). We're all expected to stay virgin until marriage and that includes all physical contact with our penises so some dudes get gifted a jewel with very big beads, I've even seen beads with precious stone, that can only be taken off by a professional. That prevents them from penetrating anyone else. However, in many families, parents don't police what boys do in their bedroom. My parents never policed me but it was made a dirty thing to "dip it" before marriage.
That and the fact that we have to remain completely "bare", that's the word used to refer to total absence of body hair. There can be only one man in a household and he's the one with body hair. My dad was never really strict about it except during summer when we have lots of people, mostly naked, invited for barbecues around the pool. Then he would tell me to shave. That, and also JP who did not not tolerate a speck of hair. So I was basically always smooth and so were my brothers.

Nowadays there's also the tradition of the WhatsApp picture. Back in the days some dads would have professional pictures taken of all their sons right after recovery. I know people who have a hall of fame at home. Naked pictures of course.
Since the WhatsApp group, dads introduce their sons to the group and post a picture for all those who did not make it to the party. And then everyone comments. There are also heartfelt messages. I always make fun of these messages but now that I'm a dad myself I know I'm gonna :
1) shed a few tears when I'll first see him after recovery
2) probably write a heartfelt message on WhatsApp if it still exists in 16 years.

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"Professional duties prevent me to be there on this very important day when my first born becomes a man ! Here's the picture he sent me this morning. As you can see, he really if F great-grandson and has been clean since the age of 15 because HE wanted to ! So proud of you M !"

Explication : The guy on the picture is 18 (no naked pictures of underaged people on our group) but the dad feels the need to say that he's been clean since the age of 15 (like a "real" man). The reference to my grandpa, F (his great grandpa) is a subtle way to underline the fact that his son also has a horse cock.

He got a lot of comments asking why that boy had pubic hair, many guys on the group chat do not play around with rules.

There are even longer and more "poetic" messages.

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This one says : " Two years ago, my wife and I met X and X in a swingers club. Our marriage was sinking down just as our sex life. We discovered their lifestyle and soon felt like it was aligning with our views and needs. We discovered a certain art of sharing and soon after I decided to take the extra step and fully join in. At that time, my son and I hadn't been close since his teenage years but I chose to explain to him what I was about to do. I also explained that it was a step towards a nudist lifestyle. That was the first time we talk about sexuality without taboos, the first ever intimate conversation we've ever had. He asked me why I had made this decision and I answered that I was doing it because I felt I was going to feel more like a man afterwards and because my wife appreciated the fact I was going to partially limit my pleasure to increase hers. I told him that we would probably be naked around the house more often after the operation but that he wasn't forced to join in any way. However, I did not dare talking about our newfound man-on-man and girl-on-girl pleasures at that time. One week later he came back to me and told me "I want to do the same". I gave him another week to think about this decision but he did not change his mind. Our consultations at the surgeon's happened separately, this picture is the actual first time we've seen each other naked in more than a decade. We've masturbated side by side that day. At first it ws awkward and then we appreciated this bonding moment that definitely broke the ice between us. I don't know if we'll ever do it. I sometimes still have to remind him to take off his clothes when he comes back from class but only because he asked me to do it. Least I can say is that we've never been this close. We have daily conversations now, as if being naked ( sometimes sporting random erections) after years of prudeness, had automatically brought us closer together....."

I stop the translation here.

Newly clean dudes are often the ones that follow the rules the more and I guess it's pretty obvious here.

It was soon followed by someone else's message :

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This one is not even an introduction message. It says :

"Thanks P for this beautiful testimony. Almost the same happened to me five years ago. I take advantage of this opportunity to post a picture I just took this morning at breakfast since I rarely have my two sons together at home anymore. It's been five years for A and I and three years for J (the one who's got morning wood). The elder one saw your message and said "We were so stuck up before!". The youngest one doesn't even really remember how it was "before" and just said that he doesn't understand why people wear clothes when they're inside of their own homes."
The oldest one (with the long hair) is married and has three kids, hence the full bush. The youngest one is still a virgin, hence the bare body.

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