The Edger's Diary - Chapter 3

I guess las post brings many coments, in inspite there is none :oops: Today post topics: "privacy", "equality", "fairness", "respect". I will try to get to the subject of how do we present to the other, both literal and metaphorical.

Nothing is aseptic. Things, postures, attitudes, etc., imply meanings. To edge another person it implies an imbalance of power, because: one says, the other does. Period.

Now, there are degrees between which this asymmetric relationship varies. Starting with this journey, I should have quickly learned them. Not everyone loves categories, or even wants to be categorized. But to make things easier - as humans we are - we produce Manichean standards to interact without much explanation.

However, I always try to avoid them and ask what is the experience that - the one in front of me - wants to have? For this reason, I am always surprised by those boys who come so "formatted" in attitudes and expressions that, although they generate some attractiveness and curiosity, they tend to limit the previous parity between the two when setting the session.

"SLAVE XXX" (SXXX)
Hi Sir I saw ur posts in LPSG.
I will be so gratefull if I would be alowed to serve you my edges, as you use me in any way you want.

EDGER
Hi! How are you?
SXXX
Hi Sir, im fine thanks.
EDGER
:) Cool! Im fine too.
SXXX
Sir, Im ready if you want to inspect me.
EDGER
Inspect? Im not a doctor...:D
SXXX
Lol. Sir, for you to see if im adecuate for you.
EDGER
You have a dick?
SXXX
Sorry, Sir?
EDGER
Do you have a penis, to wank?
SXXX
Yes Sir, I have one.
EDGER
Cool. Are you in between 18-35, as my post sayed?
SXXX
Yes Sir, im 33.
EDGER
So, I dont need more.
SXXX
Maybe, Sir, to check my bod?
EDGER
I give one chance to everyone, it's not about that.
SXXX
Ok, Sir. If you want, I can be inspected, when you decide.
EDGER
Got it... Why don't you talk about your likes and dont, better?
No lists of kinks, just tell me what you want here...
So, yeah. Like I might "desrespect" some "truthly" sub-slave, wich says "this is not a character" I do conceve myself as a servant... etc. Well, I cant play like that. I need to put some pause to that, and talk directly and agree all the terms as equals before we jump in.

This brings a second, but more important topic:
Exposure

"WANKER-MATE 2001" (WM01)
Hello! I just read your post, and I got a hard on lol. Im doing my first steps here, can you edge me some time?

EDGER
Sup mate. Sure. Tell me what have you done so far?
WM01
Well, I did some messure comepetitions, on sites. And been edged on Skype two times.
EDGER
Well cool, so you know the deal! ahahaha :rolleyes:
WM01
Yeah, but like those been brief, not a propper sessions. How long do you make boys go?
EDGER
Well, with experienced guys I do 45-60min, even more. But I have a life too! I cant be here that long.:sleeping:
WM01
No way, I would end in 15min. lol ahhaha
EDGER
Everyone stars in some place ;)
WM01
Cool! Can I ask something?
EDGER
Sure, all questions, and requests.
WM01
Could I not show my face?
EDGER
What?
WM01
Nothing, forgot it. Im ready if you are.
EDGER
Who made you believe that showing your whole self is something requiered or mandatory?! I mean, fuck them! wtf?
WM01
Oh, hmmm. My last edger sayed that he will only edge me if i was fully exposed.
EDGER
Never, again, do that to yourself. Unless your kink is exhib, dont agree in that kind of terms. Let me guess, he was out of cam, and only typing.
WM01
The first one yes, the second was speaking thou.
EDGER
Again, never. Unless it turns you on to be that much exposed, to a unknown, don't accept those terms.
Advantage? Profesionalism? To much into the character? Style? I dont care, this is my blog, and those practices -demanding full exposure of 22 yo guys and been a blank typing screen- not cool, at all.

Finally I always post this formula to the guys that ask for the exposure thing:

To be clear:
1) You are not "requiered" to do anything you dont want. I do love to see, but things like that are earn. Strictly I only need ur "lower half". If u want to show anything else, up to you.
2) Never engage with anyone that "demands" exposure they dont give, or respect (unless ur kink is that).
3) I never record noone. I simply dont know how. I dont want to know. The guys that upload content with me, make the records, and only cuz they have interest to share.




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Nice view on the edging side, I know there is inherent role play in the edging practice. But it is also cool to to have a practice that works for both sides. The best edgers I have been have been always respectful.
 

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