Wellcome back. Long time no see. Back to inner thoughts.
Todays show: "Flaws of a Dom: 7 capital sins."
LUST
This sin is undoubtedly the one on which it is easier to fall. Why is lust a sin? Well, the question is, can you afford personal arousal as a guide? What about the other person?
Certainly brings up the -previous- discussion about "who is the session for?" To me, as an exploiter of the other's fetishes, or to the other so that they "flourish" and allow them to have a wider enjoyment.
As I have mentioned before, the idea -at least for me- is to organize the session around the interests and desires of the other, as well as respecting their limits.
But ... sins ... don't work like that. One is "put to the test" when they are at the peak of the session, and must make decisions.
Acting, not acting, all are manifestations through which it expresses itself in "north" that guides the situation.
The key is not to get confused, or confuse others. If it's for him, it's for him. If it's for me, it's for me. But let it be clear from moment one. We should not say that it is for him, and end up dedicating ourselves to us, and that brings lust.
GLUTTONY
Consume by more. Getting stuck from so much spanning. Which is the limit? As I have commented, my limit I try to finish it in 60 minutes. But how many 60min sessions can you have in a day? 24? Obviously not.
But ... when you have a run, a rampage, a frenzy, when do you cut? Who is excluded from the list, even if they wait their turn like everyone else?
When this sin hits - and hits hard - it's hard to stop. And ... let me tell you, guys don't help. It develops all sorts of "requests" and offers to be "served", and they follow one after another .... "And if one was not "satisfactory" surely the next improvement". "And if it was great, surely the one that comes too". And so one is deluded and engages in gluttony.
GREED
I'm going to quote a well-known ancient Japanese proverb: "Gotta catch 'em all!"
One is not enough. But I'm not talking about gluttony, I don't need to know I'm milking a boy today. I need to know what I have to choose from. That there are people in line. And more. New, week by week. No longer a couple, not tens, it must be hundreds. A stable as far as the eye can see. All with their barcode. Again, not many, all.
Needless to say, this leads to task recentering. Devaluing frequent guys, and making them feel undervalued. In addition to creating a false feeling, in me, of "validity" when it is really the product of the "novelty" of the boy. The proof of one's quality is found in "repeating" where creativity and originality must emerge.
SLOTH
Although I have already spoken about "my right to rest", although many may not understand it ... There is also an extreme "bad" or inappropriate for a good Dom. Laziness, but not a product of boredom, tiredness or asty it is simply a lack of expectations.
It is valid, at one point ... but not if expectations were generated in the other. There are guys who "book" their shift a day or two in advance. And many times, when the time comes, I have very little desire to do something. It's no one's fault, but ... someone is going to suffer. Or me, doing something half, or him receiving something mediocre.
In short, make commitments only if we have the desire, energy and will for them. Simple as that.
WRATH
I have little space with this sin, as I am a cold man. But ... I wonder, does being cold, calculating or temperate mean that I am free from anger?
I recently allowed myself to be stressed by a boy who wrote to me for minutes and minutes, tempting me - yes, they tempt us - and he always did the same to me, he called me, showed me his rock-hard member, sometimes wet, and cut at 10 seconds. How I hated it. Of course, the first time I thought it was a mistake, an internet problem, shame, fear, etc ... When it happened for the 3rd time, I understood. I explained to him not to do it, that I would prefer that he consult someone else. After a week he did the same, but from a new user. 5 users created that month, just to show me 10sec of himself. I blocked it in every possible way. And whenever he could, he sent him to hell. But hey, I always try to understand people. I do not think I am to blame for anything, it is the previous experiences that form the current version.
ENVY
A difficult one. The rhetoric of domination / control says that - besides there are no flaws - it is not possible for someone at "top" to envy anyone. But ... you know I'm human. So what the hell!
However, I think there are healthy envies. Like: "How good would it be ...." "What would happen if I too ..." Almost as incentives to improve, change, adapt ...
What do I think I have envied, along this path? Dick sizes, like man, I saw a LOT of dick, and let me tell u ... there are some hung fellas out there .. Also cute faces, like some 20 some boys, that have no shame on been fully naked -I did already sayed that i dont ecourage- but yeah ... beauty.
Also ................ hard topic, to envy another "edger". "Why does he have ...?" "How do you go ...?" Again, this, like capitalism itself, encourages improvement through competition.
PRIDE
The sin. No other.
I am the one who summons them, be it showing my piece, or absent, only in text. My mind, my twisted personality, seductive, complacent, kinky, funny, witty, presumptuous, domineering, abusive, everything. Me and no other.
That milk is for and for me. They do not dedicate their time - whatever it is - to another human more than to me. I milk them. They give themselves to me. No other.
The greatest challenge of pride is that it be a fire that illuminates, and does not set you on fire. If it consumes you, you lost the game.
In this regard, yesterday's chat:
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See you in next chapter.
Todays show: "Flaws of a Dom: 7 capital sins."
LUST
This sin is undoubtedly the one on which it is easier to fall. Why is lust a sin? Well, the question is, can you afford personal arousal as a guide? What about the other person?
Certainly brings up the -previous- discussion about "who is the session for?" To me, as an exploiter of the other's fetishes, or to the other so that they "flourish" and allow them to have a wider enjoyment.
As I have mentioned before, the idea -at least for me- is to organize the session around the interests and desires of the other, as well as respecting their limits.
But ... sins ... don't work like that. One is "put to the test" when they are at the peak of the session, and must make decisions.
Acting, not acting, all are manifestations through which it expresses itself in "north" that guides the situation.
The key is not to get confused, or confuse others. If it's for him, it's for him. If it's for me, it's for me. But let it be clear from moment one. We should not say that it is for him, and end up dedicating ourselves to us, and that brings lust.
GLUTTONY
Consume by more. Getting stuck from so much spanning. Which is the limit? As I have commented, my limit I try to finish it in 60 minutes. But how many 60min sessions can you have in a day? 24? Obviously not.
But ... when you have a run, a rampage, a frenzy, when do you cut? Who is excluded from the list, even if they wait their turn like everyone else?
When this sin hits - and hits hard - it's hard to stop. And ... let me tell you, guys don't help. It develops all sorts of "requests" and offers to be "served", and they follow one after another .... "And if one was not "satisfactory" surely the next improvement". "And if it was great, surely the one that comes too". And so one is deluded and engages in gluttony.
GREED
I'm going to quote a well-known ancient Japanese proverb: "Gotta catch 'em all!"
One is not enough. But I'm not talking about gluttony, I don't need to know I'm milking a boy today. I need to know what I have to choose from. That there are people in line. And more. New, week by week. No longer a couple, not tens, it must be hundreds. A stable as far as the eye can see. All with their barcode. Again, not many, all.
Needless to say, this leads to task recentering. Devaluing frequent guys, and making them feel undervalued. In addition to creating a false feeling, in me, of "validity" when it is really the product of the "novelty" of the boy. The proof of one's quality is found in "repeating" where creativity and originality must emerge.
SLOTH
Although I have already spoken about "my right to rest", although many may not understand it ... There is also an extreme "bad" or inappropriate for a good Dom. Laziness, but not a product of boredom, tiredness or asty it is simply a lack of expectations.
It is valid, at one point ... but not if expectations were generated in the other. There are guys who "book" their shift a day or two in advance. And many times, when the time comes, I have very little desire to do something. It's no one's fault, but ... someone is going to suffer. Or me, doing something half, or him receiving something mediocre.
In short, make commitments only if we have the desire, energy and will for them. Simple as that.
WRATH
I have little space with this sin, as I am a cold man. But ... I wonder, does being cold, calculating or temperate mean that I am free from anger?
I recently allowed myself to be stressed by a boy who wrote to me for minutes and minutes, tempting me - yes, they tempt us - and he always did the same to me, he called me, showed me his rock-hard member, sometimes wet, and cut at 10 seconds. How I hated it. Of course, the first time I thought it was a mistake, an internet problem, shame, fear, etc ... When it happened for the 3rd time, I understood. I explained to him not to do it, that I would prefer that he consult someone else. After a week he did the same, but from a new user. 5 users created that month, just to show me 10sec of himself. I blocked it in every possible way. And whenever he could, he sent him to hell. But hey, I always try to understand people. I do not think I am to blame for anything, it is the previous experiences that form the current version.
ENVY
A difficult one. The rhetoric of domination / control says that - besides there are no flaws - it is not possible for someone at "top" to envy anyone. But ... you know I'm human. So what the hell!
However, I think there are healthy envies. Like: "How good would it be ...." "What would happen if I too ..." Almost as incentives to improve, change, adapt ...
What do I think I have envied, along this path? Dick sizes, like man, I saw a LOT of dick, and let me tell u ... there are some hung fellas out there .. Also cute faces, like some 20 some boys, that have no shame on been fully naked -I did already sayed that i dont ecourage- but yeah ... beauty.
Also ................ hard topic, to envy another "edger". "Why does he have ...?" "How do you go ...?" Again, this, like capitalism itself, encourages improvement through competition.
PRIDE
The sin. No other.
I am the one who summons them, be it showing my piece, or absent, only in text. My mind, my twisted personality, seductive, complacent, kinky, funny, witty, presumptuous, domineering, abusive, everything. Me and no other.
That milk is for and for me. They do not dedicate their time - whatever it is - to another human more than to me. I milk them. They give themselves to me. No other.
The greatest challenge of pride is that it be a fire that illuminates, and does not set you on fire. If it consumes you, you lost the game.
In this regard, yesterday's chat:
See you in next chapter.
Thanks (______________) for the inspiration!
