How other people begin to treat you differently from before when you were not fit and were not that good to look at. I never noticed it before tbh because perhaps I was used to it, but now when I go into a store or want service from the barman in a club or pub I get service quicker and even get a friendly smile, when before I would basically be ignored and not treated that well.
Same when I go to buy clothes or even glancing around at the mens cosmetic department area. I get more of the retail staff coming up and saying hi and offering their services more readily when before they would leave me alone even if I was directly in their eye line and obviously unsure of what to purchase. I'm finding it kind of like being a whole new person in a way and I'm not sure whether I am liking this new perspective I am gaining on the world at large because of it because it only reinforces the idea that we do indeed take people at face value and make up a lot of our presumptions on it, when in fact it could be entirely false.
God I got a headache now lol
Same when I go to buy clothes or even glancing around at the mens cosmetic department area. I get more of the retail staff coming up and saying hi and offering their services more readily when before they would leave me alone even if I was directly in their eye line and obviously unsure of what to purchase. I'm finding it kind of like being a whole new person in a way and I'm not sure whether I am liking this new perspective I am gaining on the world at large because of it because it only reinforces the idea that we do indeed take people at face value and make up a lot of our presumptions on it, when in fact it could be entirely false.
God I got a headache now lol