i,m a 55 year old gay man living in rural upstate new york--i have my own business and lots of friends (99% of them are strait)--i didn,t come out till i was 40 but still managed to have an incredible amount of sex (i grew up on long island so there were gay bars and nyc was just a 45 minute ride on the long island railroad)--my first orgasm was when i was about 6 or 7--i was shimmying up a pole that held a basketball net when all of a sudden this unbelievable sensation started happening between my legs--my dick wasn,t hard and i didn,t ejaculate but i had my first orgasm--needless to say that pole became a good friend of mine till i discovered that the lolly columns in my basement served the purpose just as well and were much more convienient--some years later i had my first ejaculation and told a friend--he told me about jerkin off and also introduced me to my first blowjob--life is filled with lots of bullshit but at the end of the day we have our cocks--and there are few pleasures in life that can compare to the joy of an explosive orgasm ( even a non-explosive one is good)--i am so glad i have my penis and the pleasure it,s given me throughout my life--i look forward to my next orgasm and fondly remember my first--praise the penis....