I find the pat comments about size humorous. It is important. It adds to stimulation intangibly and, of course, during sex. It is not the only thing. In general, it is not even a top five important thing to a woman. Ah, but if a guy has it she will enjoy.
Men too often put way too much focus on size though. Way too much. But, I am convinced that when the guy reaches that point in his life where he wants to explore the topic he would be better served to be able to discuss the issue truthfully. At the first attempt he will get, if average and searching because he wants to please his lover as much as she pleases him, he will get a pat answer like "I had a lover with a really big one and he didn't know how to use it, so size not important." He thinks "good news" then a couple days later the thought comes up, "but what if an endowed guy does know how to use it?" He searches for answers with confusion added to his curiousity and it gets worse from there.
Men too often put way too much focus on size though. Way too much. But, I am convinced that when the guy reaches that point in his life where he wants to explore the topic he would be better served to be able to discuss the issue truthfully. At the first attempt he will get, if average and searching because he wants to please his lover as much as she pleases him, he will get a pat answer like "I had a lover with a really big one and he didn't know how to use it, so size not important." He thinks "good news" then a couple days later the thought comes up, "but what if an endowed guy does know how to use it?" He searches for answers with confusion added to his curiousity and it gets worse from there.