The Kiss

So, I tried to create a thread which failed miserably. Embarassment, but I realize it was in the wrong forum any how. So, I'm over it, but I wish that people had decided to actually reply... particularly certain individuals. As they say though, if wishes were horses then beggers would ride.

The Kiss. Kissing. Making out. What exactly is it about kissing that is so interesting any way? I've found myself going over the idea, the action and ultimately the sensation for a while now and I guess I shall muse on the subject. After all it is often of a sexual nature, so it should be here.

When I think about what kissing is I find myself appreciating it as a form of communication. You can say a lot of different things with a single kiss. Generally the individuals kissing could interpet meaning far better than those who might happen to be watching but that isn't always the case.

I've kissed in all sorts of fits of passion. I've kissed in a gentle, sweet and loving manner. I've kissed with urgency and need. I've kissed with anger and frustration. I've kissed to wound...

Generally, when I kiss I like to throw out my bedroom eyes and lean in slightly until the other party realizes my intentions. All my movements are usually exageratedly slow so whomever I intend to kiss can bail out gracefully. I think perhaps once in my life I have stolen a kiss via speed and clever use of trickery and I suffered for it. Stolen kisses, they are a sweet joy but can often lead to trouble.

While kissing I of course allow my hands to wander. What good is it to just stand there and kiss? I prefer to wrap, embrace, hold and stroke while kissing. The longer the kiss the more likely I am to go through all of those actions.

One thing I don't particularly enjoy are porn style kisses and those with more than one person involved. I have never understood the whole tongue outside of mouth dance, or spitting or anything generally odd. The oddest kiss I've ever done is licking, and that is usually if I'm incredibly caught up in the moment.

While kissing I love to probe and explore. Wrestling with my partners' tongue and simply feeling my way around is what I usually do. I like to soothe gums, circle their tongue, suck, and nibble on lips from time to time. I vary what I do often because I hate for kissing to become boring or predictable. Sometimes I structure my kissing around what I am actively engaged in, if I am having sex I tend to use my tongue in a penetrative manner. If I am doing oral, there is more licking and nibbling. If I am simply making out there is more exploring and variance.

I have been told I'm a very good kisser.

Kissing to me is one of the most important and intimate aspects of sharing yourself with someone. If you are a bad kisser, reluctant or hesitant I will be able to tell right away and this will impact our dynamic. When I am kissing, I am fully absorbed in the act. Sometimes I am mechanical in my head, other times I am completely spontanious about it.

I love the feelings that kissing evokes. I love how there is a different kiss for every situation. Do you understand the difference between kissing the palm of a hand and the back of one?

Kissing is clever.
Kissing is essential.

More to come...
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Comments

Jayroo,

Kissing for me has always been passive, but appreciated. I am part of your 10% so I don't know how much I'll be able to relate. But yes, kissing IS the key for me. If a guy can't put in the time for the simplest things, touching, caressing, hand holding, kissing, then I know that the small details like wearing a condom, respecting me and my feelings and just appreciating the acts for which we've just partaken are beyond him. I've faced the facts, some guys are jerks. Many aren't. After the first kiss, I can usually tell but kissing is not the forgone conclusion.
 

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