The male male relationship I've been after

My buddy finally did it. He came to terms with things. He hasn't said anything about his sexual orientation, but he doesn't need to.

Yesterday, he told me about a 4 way he had with a guy buddy of his and two girls. The two guys didn't touch, but he still enjoyed the experience. He had an epiphany. He can love guys, but not in the same way as he loves girls.

In a text message to me, he said that he finally realized what he was feeling towards me. He said it was a deep love akin to having a close brother. We are very tight as friends go, despite our not being able to see each other regularily.

And, I'm happy. He's on the same page with me now. Ok, yeah...there is a sexual component to our relationship, but that doesn't happen often these days. He finds a lot of comfort in being with me and talking with me.

This feels good to have a guy that feels like this towards me. I'm closer to this guy that I've ever been with my bf. I'd spend all my time with my friend if I could. I now have a "brother". And I'm happy for it.

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Oh, Kimahri, it's about time that you found some happiness and true love in your life - you deserve nothing less. I am happy that you have a friend that you know you can rely on...come thick or thin. Good for you!
 
That's awesome. It's nice to have someone that you know will always be there.. that one true friend.

I feel the same way about a friend of mine. She means the world to me, and I know i couldn't live without her. I'm in the same situation as you, she lives far from me, but just texting her.. even the most generic messages like "Hey, how are you?" brighten my day.

I hope you and your friend are really happy and stay close.

Rob <3
 
Kimahri, it's always great to have connections to one another as you describe. Sort of makes life more worthwhile an endeavour, don't you think?

I don't know if you've ever read the postings of benderten2001, but he has a great deal to say about this very issue. He's a profoundly intelligent man whose opinions challenge you. You might want to IM him just to introduce yourself.

Again, glad things are going well!
 
That's awesome! I'm happy for both of you. :smile:
This is a pretty awesome Christmas gift! I wish everyone could have someone like that in their life. :love:
 

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