The Pastors Son

Ive been going to church lately, imm not the church kinda guy imm gay and not out yet and my church dnt knw bcuz they think its a demon spirit (yes its that kinda church) well ive kinda fallen for the pastors son, weve hung out and weve become friends I just think hes an awesome guy and I really like him and I dnt knw wut to do I mean hes the pastors son do I try to pursue him r do I leave it at just friends? ...I really dnt knw wut to do, any help?

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Not unless you want the whole church camped out on your door step calling you names and letting every one in town know you are gay.
Be his friend if you want. But I definately wouldn't just go for it. If he comes out to you fine but otherwise tread wisely.
 
Make sure he's gay too or else you could get hurt and I don't just mean emotionally. Just a personal suggestion, spell check.
 
Wait and see if something develops! But why go to a church like that? There are open and affirming congregations that understand that God loves us and is not a judgmental wrathful creator! Much better to be in a community of worshippers who will let you be who you really are then one in which you have to hide yourself. I speak from experience.
 
Man, I think u r wishing for something u will never get. If he's a pastor's son in a hellfire and brimstone church u can bet he is not what u wish he could be. He's probably a nice boy who showed an interst in u as a friend, nothing more. As painful as this may sound, unless he makes the first move, be his friend and NOTHING MORE.
 
You don't have to stay in that church or that town!! Move to the nearest large city in Texas and then invite him to come visit you for a weekend or two. Once you get him away from the prying eyes of his townsfolk, he may want to party and/or experiment. (As usual with guys you want to seduce, have some porn out where they can see it.) Plus if you approach him and it doesn't work out, you won't be outed in a homophobic backwards Texas country town.
 
Hey, continue to be a good friend. When two persons bond as friends they often become "more than just friends" and given a zone of privacy things are likely to start happening. You want it but it is important, IMHO, that he also want and need it. Such sex has a way of confirming the bond and I found such sex to be fantastic. Let things happen. You don't have to worry about pregnancy!!! But, be kind, remember that even a misbegotten heritage can be important and you do not want to aid and abet the severing familial bonds. Right?
 

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