I realized how long it's been since I actually posted something here.
In the past year I've attempted to start relationships with a couple of women. Needless to say, since I'm writing a blog entry about it, things didn't work out.
One girl was fun to hang out with and way out of my league. I didn't do anything with her but later found out that she was bragging to her friends that she slept with me and dumped me. Total lie. I hadn't even seen her in weeks. I told her to fuck off and moved on.
More recently I went out on a few dates with another girl. Things went well at first, movies, dinners. I told her I liked her. She said she liked me back so I kissed her. Fast forward three days and I get a text from her saying she's not romantically interested in me. I then noticed she started posting all these Facebook statuses about another guy. I told her off and am now moving on.
My question is, should I stop being the nice guy? I'm not a doormat but neither am I a total douche. I just tend to come off as nice. A part of me wants to just pick up random women at bars and have fun. Use my above average appendage to just enjoy myself. Forget about finding the "right" girl and just concentrate on getting some no strings attached sex for the time being.
Thoughts?
In the past year I've attempted to start relationships with a couple of women. Needless to say, since I'm writing a blog entry about it, things didn't work out.
One girl was fun to hang out with and way out of my league. I didn't do anything with her but later found out that she was bragging to her friends that she slept with me and dumped me. Total lie. I hadn't even seen her in weeks. I told her to fuck off and moved on.
More recently I went out on a few dates with another girl. Things went well at first, movies, dinners. I told her I liked her. She said she liked me back so I kissed her. Fast forward three days and I get a text from her saying she's not romantically interested in me. I then noticed she started posting all these Facebook statuses about another guy. I told her off and am now moving on.
My question is, should I stop being the nice guy? I'm not a doormat but neither am I a total douche. I just tend to come off as nice. A part of me wants to just pick up random women at bars and have fun. Use my above average appendage to just enjoy myself. Forget about finding the "right" girl and just concentrate on getting some no strings attached sex for the time being.
Thoughts?