To be a slut or to not be a slut?

I realized how long it's been since I actually posted something here.

In the past year I've attempted to start relationships with a couple of women. Needless to say, since I'm writing a blog entry about it, things didn't work out.

One girl was fun to hang out with and way out of my league. I didn't do anything with her but later found out that she was bragging to her friends that she slept with me and dumped me. Total lie. I hadn't even seen her in weeks. I told her to fuck off and moved on.

More recently I went out on a few dates with another girl. Things went well at first, movies, dinners. I told her I liked her. She said she liked me back so I kissed her. Fast forward three days and I get a text from her saying she's not romantically interested in me. I then noticed she started posting all these Facebook statuses about another guy. I told her off and am now moving on.

My question is, should I stop being the nice guy? I'm not a doormat but neither am I a total douche. I just tend to come off as nice. A part of me wants to just pick up random women at bars and have fun. Use my above average appendage to just enjoy myself. Forget about finding the "right" girl and just concentrate on getting some no strings attached sex for the time being.

Thoughts?

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Just fuck a cute girl. And be safe about it. Wrap it up.

IF you want a relationship. Then don't think about sex. Think about being a good friend.
 
Hey are a few gals closer to finding the one. Continue to interview, until you find the right person.
 
If a girl is hot for you...she'll feel romantic toward you. Being a jerk doesn't equate in hotness. I'm a nice person...so in the past, I have been known to "give a chance" to guys that I wasn't attracted to/hot for. But after 2 dates or so...if it didn't click for me...I had to move on. Both for my sake and so as not to lead the guy on.

I've now shifted to not giving chances to guys that I'm not attracted to. It's a waste of time for him & for me. I know what I like. I know what I want. I know what I need. And yes...let's be real...looks play a part in that. And COCK size too. It's all about the pre-screening.
 
You are not alone....and I can relate. Many girls don't like guys who treat them good, and it often reflects in their upbringing or relationships with their father.

Two points I want to make from what you posted.
1. It is probably always best to take the high road. Still be a gentleman and treat the ladies good. You are much more likely to find that keeper who you will enjoy for much longer than a quick one nighter. It will also be easier to look yourself in the mirror.
2. I am not sure why you told off the girl on facebook. So she found someone special and it isn't you. Not everything revolves around you.
 
Doug61853, I know that not everything revolves around me. I just didn't appreciate her stringing me along and lying to me. If she found someone else then I'm fine with that. Just don't go out on dates with me and tell me you like me and promptly throw me to the curb when the other guy shows up. That's all.

As for everyone else, thanks for the advice. I'm going to give this "nice guy" thing a few more tries. Eventually it'll find me someone good.
 
And it will. Being a nice guy is so much better than being a jerk. There are plenty of women out there flipping through the trash to find a "nice guy." And if your nice your more likely to end up with someone nice instead of a b-witch.
 
Women are crazy sometimes. But keep being your awesome self. Don't change for them--you'll find one worthy of your time.
 
ROFL... I meant a BITCH... I just refer to them as witches. I tend to edit my words :) But I think a Bitch could definitely put a spell on you, stay nice and avoid those types! Good things are worth waiting for!
 

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