I've never truly gotten the concept of cruising. I tend to pick it up as it is happening, but I often find myself at a loss as to what to do. I guess in the end it must make me come off as uninterested or something but it really has to do with me not knowing how to respond.
There have been times when I've been stared at in clubs and I just don't get it. Making eye contact and holding it often doesn't do anything but lead to a staring contest. Should I go over there, is he coming to me? Am I going to get my ass kicked? What's going to happen. I wish I had a clue.
Cruising is mysterious, I've never really had success with it at all. I can barely tell when someone is doing it. I mean really, what's to say they don't just have a staring problem? Aren't guys supposed to grab their crotches or nod in some subtle manner? There's nothing to pick up on or work with.
It gets frustrating. Does anyone have any tips out there for me?
Meh, not so much sex... but it does deal with and lead to sex so I guess this entry is valid.
More to come...

There have been times when I've been stared at in clubs and I just don't get it. Making eye contact and holding it often doesn't do anything but lead to a staring contest. Should I go over there, is he coming to me? Am I going to get my ass kicked? What's going to happen. I wish I had a clue.
Cruising is mysterious, I've never really had success with it at all. I can barely tell when someone is doing it. I mean really, what's to say they don't just have a staring problem? Aren't guys supposed to grab their crotches or nod in some subtle manner? There's nothing to pick up on or work with.
It gets frustrating. Does anyone have any tips out there for me?
Meh, not so much sex... but it does deal with and lead to sex so I guess this entry is valid.
More to come...