Warning a friend about an abusive guy

So this post has to do with this one :

Coping with past abusive lovers

I told my friend on Wednesday that this guy was an abusive asshole and she pretty much just shrugged it off. I don't know if he told her anything about me, but I'm pretty sure I'm the only one who still has those terrible text messages that resulted after that situation. Tonight, she posted a pic of them all cozy on facebook with hash tags #cheese #saturday #night #fun #times #family". I don't know why I'm so upset. It hurts my feelings that she continues to hang out with him after what he's done to me. I don't give a shit if they're sleeping together, I just don't want her to get hurt like me. I have no clue what to do. Should I just let it go? Or try to talk to her about it again ? She honestly didn't seem to give a shit the first time I tried to talk to her about him. They've been friends since high school. Blah. He's such a slime ball.



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Edit : She texted me this morning pretty much saying that they've been friends for 20 years. She doesn't care what he did to me. I should get over it.


Oh. Ok. I'll work on that.

I texted her back telling her that she should care because she is MY friend. It doesn't matter how long they've been friends for. And that I can't be friends with her when she is so flippant and insensitive about abuse, because that's what it was. Verbal, physical and emotional abuse.


I'm sitting here shaking and crying because no one even knows he abused me. And that's how she reacts. Fuck her and fuck him.

Comments

Some friends are incapable of turning down the dick regardless of who tells them it's a bad dick. Try not to dwell on it, she's not a good friend. I know why it feels bad. It's because by doing this she's saying "You're not really a friend i trust and i believe him over you." She doesn't. She just can't say no to the cock. Pity her, then let her slowly drift away and don't be sucked back in when this guy does something awful and she's looking for a shoulder to cry on. It'll just keep happening. I had to ditch a friend like this a few years ago. My life is now much better for it. Cjhicks before dicks sweetie and don't let it get you down. You tried. She didn't. Sending you hugs xoxoxox
 
You tried. Your job as a friend is done. Some women just like bad boys. The sad part is, he'll abuse her, and she'll go back for more. Typical for most of the women in my area. Good guys just don't hold their interest.
 

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