So this post has to do with this one :
Coping with past abusive lovers
I told my friend on Wednesday that this guy was an abusive asshole and she pretty much just shrugged it off. I don't know if he told her anything about me, but I'm pretty sure I'm the only one who still has those terrible text messages that resulted after that situation. Tonight, she posted a pic of them all cozy on facebook with hash tags #cheese #saturday #night #fun #times #family". I don't know why I'm so upset. It hurts my feelings that she continues to hang out with him after what he's done to me. I don't give a shit if they're sleeping together, I just don't want her to get hurt like me. I have no clue what to do. Should I just let it go? Or try to talk to her about it again ? She honestly didn't seem to give a shit the first time I tried to talk to her about him. They've been friends since high school. Blah. He's such a slime ball.
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Edit : She texted me this morning pretty much saying that they've been friends for 20 years. She doesn't care what he did to me. I should get over it.
Oh. Ok. I'll work on that.
I texted her back telling her that she should care because she is MY friend. It doesn't matter how long they've been friends for. And that I can't be friends with her when she is so flippant and insensitive about abuse, because that's what it was. Verbal, physical and emotional abuse.
I'm sitting here shaking and crying because no one even knows he abused me. And that's how she reacts. Fuck her and fuck him.
Coping with past abusive lovers
I told my friend on Wednesday that this guy was an abusive asshole and she pretty much just shrugged it off. I don't know if he told her anything about me, but I'm pretty sure I'm the only one who still has those terrible text messages that resulted after that situation. Tonight, she posted a pic of them all cozy on facebook with hash tags #cheese #saturday #night #fun #times #family". I don't know why I'm so upset. It hurts my feelings that she continues to hang out with him after what he's done to me. I don't give a shit if they're sleeping together, I just don't want her to get hurt like me. I have no clue what to do. Should I just let it go? Or try to talk to her about it again ? She honestly didn't seem to give a shit the first time I tried to talk to her about him. They've been friends since high school. Blah. He's such a slime ball.
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Edit : She texted me this morning pretty much saying that they've been friends for 20 years. She doesn't care what he did to me. I should get over it.
Oh. Ok. I'll work on that.
I texted her back telling her that she should care because she is MY friend. It doesn't matter how long they've been friends for. And that I can't be friends with her when she is so flippant and insensitive about abuse, because that's what it was. Verbal, physical and emotional abuse.
I'm sitting here shaking and crying because no one even knows he abused me. And that's how she reacts. Fuck her and fuck him.