Well now ...

After all this time, I think I might actually be in a relationship ... and I think it's going downhill already. I wish I knew what went through a woman's heads sometimes.

After being on holiday and not seeing each other for a week, she's blown me off 2 nights in a row now. I saw her yesterday, went round to her house to give her some souvenirs I brought back and everything was great, but then she doesn't bother to let me know that she's not coming round last night.

I get the feeling that I'm being played a tthe moment, maybe she's bored of me, maybe there's someone else. Maybe it's just all in my mind. It's great when we're together but with my work rota and other things we dont'/can't spend as much time together as I'd like. I'm scared that this will lead to the end of it.

I just wish I knew what she was thinking sometimes.

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I think you should just call her up and ask if you can come over to see her and say exactly what you told us above. Women hold things in that upset them. Most of our men have no idea we are even mad at them when we are so it is best to just come out and say "hey whats up?"
Then the balls in her court to talk and if it is something or even nothing your talk will get every thing worked out.
 
Agree with SLV. One additional point - make sure you listen to whatever your g/f has to say. Don't interrupt or argue until she has finished. Women love guys who actually listen and try to understand far more than guys who just move straight into "fix it" mode. If it is fixable, then work on it together.
 

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