What women want......

There are plenty of sex books out there that try to give men the best understanding on how to fully satisfy their partners needs. The truth is that no amount of information can overwrite the power of experience, yes women do take on average longer to climax than men which does mean foreplay is a must in the lead up to some amazing sexy-time, although this doesn't rule out that some women do like a little bit of; spontaneity, excitement, wild, rough, outrageous and zesty sex!

Be in control, Women secretly love a man to dominate in the bedroom, especially if they know what they're doing. Try not to ask her what she wants, instead you can explore your woman, throw some different moves in the bag during intercourse, if you hit the right notes she'll let you hear the symphony, watch her body language, if she moves on you in such a way that it pulls you in or to the side then go with her.

Constant arousal, kissing her intimate parts like her neck and just below the ear or sucking on her fingertips will intensify the whole experience for her. Pay particular attention to her clitoris while having sex (if in reach) soft circular motions with just one or two fingers, building speed and pressure as you send her into a wild orgasmic explosion.

Blindfold, try adding a blindfold next time you have sex, the intensity will heighten due to her vision been restricted she can only concentrate on one thing! kiss her from head to toe slowly, the anticipation will get her juices flowing and her lust for your cock inside her will be uncontrollable.

Warm up, foreplay and teasing doesn't have to start in the bedroom, next time you go to see her parents for sunday lunch, give her ass a cheeky spank but don't let the in-laws notice, tell her you want to devour her when you get home, this will play on her mind throughout the meal and her own visions will lead her to a state of desire for sex.

Noise, women like to know you're having a good time, let her know (even if your not) by simply moaning a little or whispering in her ear that it's great or it feels so good to be inside her, don't over do it with the moaning though, it can be a turn off.

respect, this wont apply to every woman, but bending her over a doing her like a prostitute wont make her feel comfortable, it will prolong her orgasm and can be a turn off. Slow things down and be affectionate, lots of body contact will make her feel safe and bring her experience to new heights.


Matt
Bathmate

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you must have lots and lots of experience Matt...

only... a word of warning... Perhaps you should change your title to "What "SOME" women want" or "Things I've learned from the Women lovers in my life."

I would dare say that there are women out there who (1) prefer that THEY be the dominate person, (2) really want you to stay away from kissing their necks or sucking fingers, and (3) can come as quickly as a guy ...

I do think watching and paying attention to body language is paramount. That pretty much will tell a guy what he needs to know. But actually, getting to know the girl before taking her straight to the bedroom is just as important.
 
Betty_Cocker;bt114194 said:
you must have lots and lots of experience Matt...

only... a word of warning... Perhaps you should change your title to "What "SOME" women want" or "Things I've learned from the Women lovers in my life."

I would dare say that there are women out there who (1) prefer that THEY be the dominate person, (2) really want you to stay away from kissing their necks or sucking fingers, and (3) can come as quickly as a guy ...

I do think watching and paying attention to body language is paramount. That pretty much will tell a guy what he needs to know. But actually, getting to know the girl before taking her straight to the bedroom is just as important.

Agreed... It was just a short blog with what was in my mind at the moment, i was feeling horny and just started typing up words from a night i remembered a few weeks back ;)
 

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