What Would Be Your ideal Sex Life?

If you had the body and cock of your dreams, and had the stamina to live your ultimate sex life, what would it be?

I am a lucky man to have a wife who still enjoys sex with me 3-4 times a week after more than 20 years of marriage. Being the horny fuck I am I would love to bump that up to 5 times a week. Well, I would love 7 times but I do think a break here and there keeps it more special.

I am bisexual so I am also fortunate that my best friend Jay has become my fuck buddy. He and I both know how to turn each other on. There was a time before Covid when we got together about once a week and rarely were apart for more than two weeks. Now our encounters are more sporadic. In my dream scenario he and I would have sex at least twice a week.

I would love to have my wife and Jay in bed together ocassionally. I would like each of them to see the joy the other brings to my life, but I would also like to see them enjoying each other.

My dream has always been that sex should be something we all do with everyone we want to share it with. That is how my life was from 18 into my mid 20's, I honestly can't even tell you how many people I fucked. i satisfied my ultra high sex drive and I don't mean to sound cocky, but I know I satisfied a lot of other people so that really stoked my young ego.

My wife totally satisfies my female desires. In my dream sex life I would like to have sex with guys I am attracted to during my daily routine. It would be nice to have casual sex with guys at the gym, artists I pose for, the Fed-Ex guy, etc. Yes, I could initiate sex with any of them, but I would feel guilty about it and other people's views about sex outside of a relationship could also make it awkward.

Because I love my wife I suppress what could easily turn into a daily fuckfest. If she was into it, and she absolutely is not, I would bring home a guy so I could fuck his tight ass and then let her enjoy getting fucked by him.

Do any of you share my idea of sex being more like entertainment we can enjoy with anyone at any time? I'd love to hear what you ultimate sex life would be.

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A very interesting concept ... Ideal Sex Life:idea:
At 70 years of age, your blog has reminded me of my libido development over the decades. Also, it is noteworthy that my egotistical desires became exposed. My ultimate fantastical sex life has always evolved around acceptance of myself being loved.

Another interesting concept you brought up was "entertainment we can enjoy with anyone at any time". It's a shame that our collective ego's would never permit this entertainment to conceptualize. Too many factors interfere with expressions of sexuality.
 
Oh boy. This brings up all kinds of issues that I've dealt with in my life.
My fundamentalist upbringing limited my sexual development not only through high school but also fueled the alcoholism that ruled my life from 18 to 32 years of age. I had to get really drunk or high to smother the guilt and shame. Then I got sober at the height of AIDS in the mid-70s and that was terrifying because at first no one understood the transmission and there was no treatment.
I landed a "safe" husband who had been an AIDS buddy for men who were dying at The National Institutes of Health. So we were righteous about safe sex...and then his disability and pain meds stopped all sex.
Eventually, I got permission to play outside the relationship, but not until my 60's.
Still, I've had more and better sex in my 60's than 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s combined. I just wish it had happened sooner; I think I would have been a machine!
 
It is a tough question. My ideal sex life would be: I would like to be loved, desired by my wife and my BF. If Any of us desires the other - it would be no problem to have sex - just concentrate on each other.
Emotions connected with sex in my mind. It would be haven to know that Im desired and could give pleasure. Now I feel Im a useless plastic bag. Thrown away. Burden the environment.

I would like to MAKE LOVE.
 

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