What would you do for love

Its been a hard week! I have done my tour around the world and I find we all want to be accepted. I post my blogs as my thoughts my feelings and emotions if you want to keep reading please do so if not now is the time to click the button!! I have Been love once in my life only once! No, it was not to my husband. However, I now know truly know what it is. So I ask is it the sexual satifaction we all seek? I think not. I believe it is the deepest touch of a persons soul. If you dare to let someone.. Can you take the risk. We all say we want love but do we? Can we speak the truth the honest truth or are we afraid. Often people ask for the truth seldom do they want to hear it. How many times have we sat down and told someone this is what would make me happy, this is what will make me feel loved. It is not if the person loves but can they provide the support to make us feel loved and will we take on the responsibility to hold anothers heart. The most precious thing they own. Will we with strength and faith with knowledge give them the knowlede to provide or do we allow them to stumble around in the dark to find what makes us happy and ignore thier frustrations until the would be relationship falls apart? Then we ask what went wrong. We are all so caught up in the now and the self that we forget the "there after" time IS like and hour glass stuck to a table. I challenge each of you to look at who you are can you tell someone what makes you happy what makes you feel loved, or am i so afraid. Fear makes us do things and accept things of the now so we dont have to look at the "after or the later" Do we try to develope ourselves to be deserving of the honor to hold such a precious gift as the heart of another. I see such beautiful people on this site and I ask these questions. They may always remain questions but i am open to your opionion if you dare to express! To answer the obvious question no I have not been hurt recently. I just like to think.

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I think I'm too selfish to love. If hypothetically I'd love someone I wouldn't ask her/him to leave everything to be with me because I'd see her/him as a burden. And I wouldn't leave everything for the person I love because I like to stand on my own two feet. So in conclusion: No love can be so great for me as to think about anything else than my own well-being. I *am* a generous, loving person, as long as it's not a commitment to be that way.
 
is this to say it wouldnt just come from you .. the feeling to want to do all you can .. or would this be a just pick up the pieces as you go like scraps from a dinner feast?
 
ameagledude;bt33550 said:
I *am* a generous, loving person, as long as it's not a commitment to be that way.

If this is your true nature....then you just haven't met that special person yet that makes you WANT to make a commitment...(imo). And I really don't believe that true love would ever make such a demand for one of the parties to "forsake all" and give up everything.

In my personal experience, I do not see commitment as a ball and chain type drudgery. Instead, it is an opportunity to have someone who cares as much for me as I do him join me on a life long journey. I have the assurance he will accept me as I am, and will share my tears as well as my laughter.

Oh well, that is just me ... I am in love, and am a hopeless romantic!
 
who said anything about giving up all .. that was not the point fancy pants. I know i have not met the right person yet. It was about being mature enough to accept the responsibility and be aware of our actions and intentions in that situation. I see you posted on another persons blog in that situation and you believed the person should be more forgiving and be aware that he was sorry . That situation is exactly what im talking about being aware and do all we can to not hurt, understand, communitcate and forgive! However if we dont make and effert to do that then we end up hurting each other due to we care more for self which in the right situation is a good thing but not always.
 
wonbyone;bt33617 said:
who said anything about giving up all .. that was not the point fancy pants. I know i have not met the right person yet. It was about being mature enough to accept the responsibility and be aware of our actions and intentions in that situation. I see you posted on another persons blog in that situation and you believed the person should be more forgiving and be aware that he was sorry . That situation is exactly what im talking about being aware and do all we can to not hurt, understand, communitcate and forgive! However if we dont make and effert to do that then we end up hurting each other due to we care more for self which in the right situation is a good thing but not always.

I am sorry, wonbyone, I was replying to the quote from ameagledude ... I totally get what you are saying and agree....
 

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