What's life like for the lucky few?

I'm new to this group. I don't really belong here. Way too small. But I admire you guys. I hope you appreciate your blessings.

So what's life for the lucky few? Is it as good as I imagine?

I think small guys really do have inferiority complexes. Does anyone disagree with me?:confused:

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im small, unfortunately, and have always secretly envied and felt inferior to guys ive known or thru pics here. it must be nice to always be confident. i work hard trying to pretend that i "measure up" to those i work with, but i'm sure they know i'm doing my best to not show anyone my low self esteem. but its really ok though. knowing the truth and accepting my place in society is ok to deal with it honestly.
 
I can relate. It shouldn't be a big thing (pun intended), but you just go through life feeling inferior on some level to just about eveybody. It's not the same as not having as much money as someone else, or as nice of a car of house or whatever--it's much more basic than that. It's like the feeling of "not measuring up" goes all the way to the core. would you agree?

Thanks for commenting. You're the first person I've had communication with.


It's nice to know I'm not totally alone.
 
I agree that it is a feeling that I've received this dna to be small for a reason and if it makes me inferior, then it may just be the feeling that nature just doesn't want me to reproduce my dna. As in survival of the fittest, and its ok to accept that. And I've never been able to get a woman preg also, as it was intended to be.
 
I just wrote a long reply that apparently didn't post for some reason. I hope I can remember what I said.

I also sent you a private message. Nothing earth shattering, but you may not have gotten that either.

I think you're wise to accept life as it is. Just today i was talking to someone at work about that very topice.

But maybe you are able to father a child. Have you ever had a sperm count done?

I used to think I probably would never have children. for LOTS of reasons. But I have three children, so I believe they were meant to be for some reason.

Maybe you will, too. someday. Not to pry, but how old are you? Married? There's still time. Life can take us places we never even knew existed.
 
We're almost the same age. I'm married, too.

Do you have ED? I have struggled with that almost my whole life. Even in my late teens.

I have at times felt everything was stacked against me in the sex dept.
 
yes i have ED issues too. even as a teen also. always experienced humiliation when it went limp, then they saw how small it is...that look affects guys like me forever. some sent me home.
 
I've always envied guys that are big. I try to imagine how great it must be to feel so confident being with a woman.
 
I know what you mean.

Whan I was 19 I was in another country and I went to a prostitiute, the only time I've ever done anything like that.

When I undressed she said, "you're small". She must have seen the look on my face abecasue she quickly said, "I'm small, too" referring to being skinny. I was pretty thin at that age and she was, too.

But I always thought she was referring to my penis, not my ribcage. Naturally, I couldn't get it up at all after that. Not at all. (Of course I only had fifteen minutes to try and I had to pay her anyway.)

All in all, it was kind of humiliating. I think she was trying to be kind after letting the comment slip, and no doubt she was just being honest. She really seemed very sweet. But the damage was already done.

I think feeling so unconfident in the sexual arena carries over into other aspects of life, don't you? No matter how good you are at something else, these's still the ever-present, nagging feeling that you just don't "measure up".

I guess it keeps us humble.
 
It's true for me too, I have little confidence in myself. I've tried to read things to try to help, even some counseling, but it never really stops the "nagging feeling" that basically I'm insecure and has always been a hardship to be small. ....Let me put something here that came from a website that talks about issues of women discussing penis size........
Being a woman, I am privy to the inside scoop of very candid "girl talk over Margarita's at the bar during Happy Hour on Girl's Night Out". And believe you me, when the matter of dick size comes up (no pun intended) many women with well-endowed partners can be heard gushing over their current lover's big thick hard hot penis, much to the envy of the other girls if he is a remarkably Big Boy. Often, if the woman in question is in a relationship with a man with a smaller penis, she might express some degree of longing for her Significant Other's package getting magically bigger while still expressing that "their love" and his "other great qualities" more than make up for his "shortcomings" in the dick department.
 
I found this...women discussing men that are either Big or small ....this says it all
Being a woman, I am privy to the inside scoop of very candid "girl talk over Margarita's at the bar during Happy Hour on Girl's Night Out". And believe you me, when the matter of dick size comes up (no pun intended) many women with well-endowed partners can be heard gushing over their current lover's big thick hard hot penis, much to the envy of the other girls if he is a remarkably Big Boy. Often, if the woman in question is in a relationship with a man with a smaller penis, she might express some degree of longing for her Significant Other's package getting magically bigger while still expressing that "their love" and his "other great qualities" more than make up for his "shortcomings" in the dick department.
 
It did. It's there twice.

Yeah, I'm sure women talk about things like that. I hate to think I have been a topic of conversation.

When I was single I sometimes avoided going "too far" because I didn't want the girl to know my awful secret.

I went to a couselor once or twice a long time ago about this, but she was absolutely no help. I think she wondered why I was bothered, which is interesting.

I believe size is important to some women, but not to all women, but as breast size is important to some men, but not to all. I personally don't care how big a woman's breasts are, evn though my wife is fairly large busted. But it honestly makes no difference to me.

Also, as all of us age, the looks tend to diminish anyway and we become wiser, understanding what's important, and I like to think that makes things like penis size and bust size less important. I may be only fooling myself, but that's what I want to believe.
 
True, but I still get off thinking about how much of it is really true, you know, bigger is better.
 

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