Why do SOME men think that women don't enjoy giving head?

chrysler fanatic;4669015 said:
I have found that women "enjoy" oral when the relationship is new, then when I' m locked down steady it slowly goes away. I have been with one girl who truly enjoyed giving it.

(In the Ask A Man forum... not a guy so I will respond here:)

"women" here being the women you have had experience with, right?

I have been with my husband for 36 yrs. First sex we ever had was a blowjob... I swallowed. Loved it then, love it now. Never tire of it. I am very oral, as are many of the women on this site.

So... I wonder.... just when will my desire for fellatio wane?

He's betting on never!:smile:

I don't think it is as rare as guys like to think. But a really bad experience with a guy forcing himself too much, or smelling rather "stale" is a huge turn off. And there are many other reasons that may not be directly related to "the guy in question" as to why a lady will not perform the act.

And IDK about "going along with the other women in the crowd" because what I do with my husband behind closed doors has never been a topic of discussion with my gf's.

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It always amazes me that almost none of the guys who ask questions like that ever consider it may be their fault.....( hygiene,.. making sure their partner feels loved& respected,.... or even listening to/ reading their girl's reaction and giving her what SHE wants....)... just fucking retarded.
 
i have never had a partner, well they had to be really good pretenders, not like oral sex. i make sure i am clean, clean clean and i am enthusiastic with my return. i am very orally and visually stimulated so that probably has a lot to do with it. nothing is considered mandatory and i greatly enjoy varying the intensity of it all, meaning just diving in is not always the right approach. lots of touching, nibbling, licking, massaging makes for the fun. also, don't be afraid to do the unexpected, where unexpected!!! ;-)~
 
Hi.

My perspective is that I really love oral. I miss giving it and would be thrilled to receive. I would never ask unless I KNEW I was fresh & clean. Fact is, my wife enjoys the orgasms I give her, and I have let her get away with letting me do ALL the work in bed. I spoiled her. My loss.
 
Dear Betty,

I agree many women I have been with have explained that they truly love giving head! I must be very lucky, but I have only had a couple partners state that they just "didn't do that".

Sexualurges
 

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