Why Do You Love PONR?

How could I not!?

In fact, I consider PONR being the most significant and sublime part of the reflex that makes the male ejaculatory climax! But what exactly is the point of no return?

It’s certainly not a climax on its own. Is it a moment then (lasting a bit)? Or is it rather a demarcation line, marking the point in time at which we know that ejaculating is inevitable?



We can learn to avoid this ‘point’ and keep control. This is essentially happening when we are edging skillfully and never let PONR, thus ejaculation, occur.

On the other hand, PONR is a very sweet and vital sexual mark, with which I am addressing the moment between knowing/sensing that ejaculation is provoked/triggered and the actual beginning of the ejaculatory reflex, which does last (generally) between 1 and 5 seconds.

I tried to put these blissful seconds into a description I phrased in another text:

I can’t keep me from slowly merging towards my ejaculatory reflex! … I again feel the oh-so-sweet melting sensations inside my reproductive system, indicating that the reflex of my ejaculation is about to kick in. I still try very hard to relax my BC and PC to stretch the incomparable moment of inevitability, yet I sense myself falling prey to the ever so sweet sensations of PONR. … my relaxation changes into a defenseless but deliberately strong hardening of my lust-muscles to further postpone the pulsing contractions. Eventually I observe my system surrender, making my lust-muscles relax briefly, before the so much desired first involuntary spasm occurs, itself marking the beginning of the automated muscular pumping routine.

Following this “definition” PONR would indeed be the stretch of time between knowing that one cannot reverse or halt the arrival of the ejaculatory reflex, and the onset of the reflex itself. So, shall we regard PONR as the phase of inevitability? Yes, I like this idea, because this stretch of time is not part of ejaculating, but neither a time we can escape anymore. We probably should speak of the Phase Of No Return = PhONR!

However, having mentioned a variable time span (1 to 5 seconds or even longer) shows us that this awesome moment isn’t fixed in duration! In fact, not only show different men different lengths of PhONR, the phase also does vary within the same individual. Hence, we may be able to manipulate and stretch the phase of this sweet merging into complete surrender (the onset of briefly losing control over our freedom of decision)!

Let me show you three examples of PhONR in the same guy. He used to show the camera a thumbs-up the instant he senses that his ejaculatory reflex is triggered (is inevitable). This is great and a definite sign for what is happening as for most observed cases it is uncertain to pin down the instant of passing the threshold of a given male (sometimes we see him let go of his cock in that moment). Now, the young guy featured enjoys his penis and masturbating on end, he loves to edge himself resulting into forceful ejaculating.

In the first example he holds the base of his cock awaiting his PhONR to arrive. He lets it happen and the blissful stretch lasts 3 seconds until his reflex ejects the first jet of his milk.

PONR phaseA-3sec.gif


The second example is remarkable for two aspects! The young man is stroking the end of his penis when he senses crossing the line of inevitability. Despite his continued stimulus (by further stroking) it takes a staggering 7 seconds until his reflex takes over from PhONR! Such a great duration to feel a pending reflex building before the pulsing of the muscles begin.

PONR phaseB-7sec.gif


But there is yet another way to experience PhONR and it again is remarkable for two aspects. Let me explain some: edgers have their glands produce an increased volume of seminal fluid before the release due to their practice. When we are loaded (literally) and close to the edge, the slightest touch or even a thought can trigger the reflex, we are so ready to spill and shoot, that we may just sit (lay) in anticipation when our body crosses the line.

This seems to happen in the third example. The masturbator doesn’t touch himself at all (anymore). He is waiting for his PhONR to arrive and it does, just by his level of arousal and the pressure in his glands. And now something amazing is happening. The man is experiencing an emisjaculation. This is a very fulfilling variant of the ejaculatory climax. I coined the word, let me explain:

Some men have learned to generate stand-alone emissions, which is the release (outflow) of male milk by deliberately relaxing our glandular sphincters without triggering the ejaculatory reflex. This shows us that emissions are possible without and before ejaculating.

Emission before the reflex may happen naturally (unintentional) when a male’s glands are saturated with cum and when that man has reached the edge. The third example apparently shows us such a situation. Our masturbator indicates that his PhONR takes hold of his system only a split second before his milk is flowing out of his cock-tip. His reflex takes off 3 seconds later! Emission has become part of the PhONR.

PONR phaseC-3sec emis.gif


This is an emisjaculation (in this case a natural, unprovoked occurrence) where emission blends into ejaculation, hence the expression. Men who play/experiment with stand-alone emissions may experience emisjaculation due to the sensations of the outflow of semen (or when attempting to stop the outflow by clenching muscles) which does trigger the reflex, no additional stimulus required.

Now, the deliberate provoking of an emission does feel different from the phase of no return, it is more a sensation of relaxation despite being close to PhONR/the edge. The relaxation makes the valves of your glands relax and semen will flow. For the sensations of PhONR see the description above once again.

As we have seen, PhONR surely does occur in different masturbatory situations (i.e. by different stimuli) and in different durations. We can attempt to alter its quality in ways that cater our desires. I just love this phase!

Comments

Something I've done for years when I reach the PONR is try to hold the cum inside for as long as I can and not let it flow immediately. I feel like it makes me have a much more intense orgasm. I get hyper sensitive the second I reach PONR so that brief moment is brutal and lovely at the same time.
 

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