I've recently been in a few situations where I displayed two different types of behavior -- but achieved the same basic outcome.
I was dating this guy in May. We got along great, had chemistry lots of good stuff. He was really respectful of me, a total gentleman. Then I slept over his house one night. He asked me if I wanted him and I said "Of course I do, but I"m not ready to have sex with you yet." We'd only been going out for three weeks.
After that night, I never heard from him again - save some random yahoo instant messages.
In July, I was seeing this other guy. He and I had electric sexual chemistry, but I didn't wanna be a booty call to him. We hung out and fooled around twice. Then I gave in and slept with him. The sex was absolutely amazing.
I haven't heard from him since either.
So to me, I'm fucked if I don't sleep with a guy and fucked if I do -- Either way I'm not getting called back. And I don't know why.
And since neither of them have talked to me since -- it really leaves me clueless.
I don't understand what went wrong. Especially with the guy I slept with -- we had a great time, we have awesome sexual chemistry.
It makes me kind of bitter because guys always wonder what makes girls so crazy -- well the short answer is YOU do. Guys that is. You make me crazy by not being man enough to say you're disinterested. You make me crazy by lacking the fucking balls to pick up the phone.
What the hell is going on here?
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He freaking e-mailed me and told me
But the big reason why I havnt contacted u sooner is that I got back togeather with my x girlfriend and we are trying to work things out...im sorry if I upset you, its just I love my girlfriend and I want to stay faithful to her..I hope you understand.
fucking lame
I was dating this guy in May. We got along great, had chemistry lots of good stuff. He was really respectful of me, a total gentleman. Then I slept over his house one night. He asked me if I wanted him and I said "Of course I do, but I"m not ready to have sex with you yet." We'd only been going out for three weeks.
After that night, I never heard from him again - save some random yahoo instant messages.
In July, I was seeing this other guy. He and I had electric sexual chemistry, but I didn't wanna be a booty call to him. We hung out and fooled around twice. Then I gave in and slept with him. The sex was absolutely amazing.
I haven't heard from him since either.
So to me, I'm fucked if I don't sleep with a guy and fucked if I do -- Either way I'm not getting called back. And I don't know why.
And since neither of them have talked to me since -- it really leaves me clueless.
I don't understand what went wrong. Especially with the guy I slept with -- we had a great time, we have awesome sexual chemistry.
It makes me kind of bitter because guys always wonder what makes girls so crazy -- well the short answer is YOU do. Guys that is. You make me crazy by not being man enough to say you're disinterested. You make me crazy by lacking the fucking balls to pick up the phone.
What the hell is going on here?
____ EDIT ____
He freaking e-mailed me and told me
But the big reason why I havnt contacted u sooner is that I got back togeather with my x girlfriend and we are trying to work things out...im sorry if I upset you, its just I love my girlfriend and I want to stay faithful to her..I hope you understand.
fucking lame