Why I Like Younger Men

Why I Like Younger Men

This past year and a half, I discovered that YOUNGER men have something to offer. I used to date within my own age range, give or take a few years. But in November of 2010, I took a new lover for the first time in several years. I had actually been celibate for a few years due to some life circumstances. When it was time to "come out" of celibacy, I did it with a younger guy I met online.

Edward had a very THICKLY endowed 6.5" cock. It would maybe not qualify him for LPSG but it was very thick and straight and hard as granite. Edward was also an expert cocksman, and could fuck like a porn star....had great stamina and he could go multiple rounds. He had amazing CONTROL over his orgasm. So as a lover, he could time himself in a way that allowed me, his lover, to have maximum pleasure.

Edward showed me the advantages of a younger guy. Not all guys are the same or have the same characteristics, but I have found that some things are GENERALLY true of younger men: they are in the best shape of their lives physically, they are horny as fuck and usually hard as granite---RARELY having any kind of ED issues like older guys. They tend to have more stamina and the ability to get hard again and fuck again. They often are very energetic and athletic.

Because of their age, they are in a generation that is very sexually active and open and they usually are less judgmental than men from my generation who have major double-standards about women that are complete bullshit. As a result of the openness and fact that sex is very accepted, most younger guys are very experienced by the time they are in college. Younger guys also tend to be more kinky and open to experimentation. They do not have the "homophobic" hang-ups of many older men. They are more likely to be wild and crazy in the bedroom because the judgement is just not there.

As a woman in her prime, I want more frequent sex. But I also want QUALITY sex. I really do not want to deal with men who have erectile issues. I also want a man with stamina, and who can fuck like a porn-star. Yes, older men sometimes have experience that younger men do not have. But as a cougar--I have learned to guide a lover if I need to, and I am not shy about my pleasure---I ask, and I make sure my needs, wants, desires and preferences are known to any partner I may have. Yes, older men can be more mature. But many younger guys are just as respectful, courteous, and caring about us as women as guys our own age.

If I have the choice---I am going to pick a younger guy. I still date guys my age---but as far as sex goes---I want a hot, young stud in my bed, pleasing me!

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@ges-- Dating and sex are not always mutually exclusive for me. What I have found from my own experience, is that American culture creates a situation related to dating that can be very hurtful to women. Let me explain: In our country, which is very much influenced by Judeo-Christian values and mores, a man essentially has to DATE a woman in order to have sex with her. But as soon as he gets what he wants (sex) he will drop her if he is not interested in more than sex with her. This creates a lot of pain for the woman emotionally---she has been used for sex. Why not take the dating out of it and be MORE HONEST and not USE women? Own up to the fact that you are only wanting a physical relationship and then the woman can make a judicious choice whether to have sex or not. DATING implies that a man wants to take a woman out to see if there is potential for a relationship in the future. Otherwise, you may just remain friends and not date. But once sex is introduced into the relationship, a different level of intimacy happens and there is an IMPLIED relationship that is coming together. This is where women end up getting shafted (literally and figuratively) all the time. Because to most women, if we are DATING a guy and the relationship then goes to the next level of having sex---that means that it is NOT just sex---it means the guy wants to take our RELATIONSHIP to the next level. Otherwise---he would not be dating us---he would just be fucking us. My idea is that Sex and Dating should be separate. You should not fuck people you date until you KNOW WITH CERTAINTY that you want to BE IN A GROWING, ON-GOING RELATIONSHIP with them. Anything else is hurtful , using and asking for problems. It is a matter of honesty. Because IF you have been DATING---there is an implied relationship that is there. If someone is not wanting more emotionally or to continue the relationship with a person, they should not fuck them. If they do---they are completely selfish and hurtful. That is why in my opinion, SEX should be kept out of dating UNTIL someone knows they want to go to the next level with the person they are dating.
 

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