Drunk sex with straight best friend - doesn't remember

UPDATE... If anyone cares

Haven't seen him in about 3 weeks, any exchange we have over messages etc is generally lifeless and forced from his side I feel.

My conclusion - he remembers... And he's not happy about it ‍♂️♂️

Have suggested meeting up this weekend for a catch up, so let's see what happens then... If it happens at all?! LOL

Is my straight friend potentially gay?

Are you saying that you don't believe a person's sexuality can change? Or simply that such a person should not be considered "100 straight?"
In that context, I meant that such a person cannot be considered straight. (I'll drop the 100% because anything less than 100% is not "straight" in my book). But your first question prompts a dilemma. If a person's sexuality can change, then how does that square with the "born that way" contention? Does it not give credibility to abhorrent past practices to reform a gay person? Or can one's sexuality only change in one direction; i.e., heterosexual to homosexual but never homosexual to heterosexual? It seems to me that the same people who reject the notion that homosexuals can become heterosexuals would embrace the notion that a person's sexuality can change!

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