Hey everyone, as the title says, I've started seeing guys recently (since last summer). I think I've always been attracted to men, but I've never had the guts to admit it. Anyway, since last summer, I grew a pair and started going on grindr. I usually get sucked off, it's quite fun, quick and easy, and the guys are ok with doing only that. However, I have 2 issues I need advice on (and maybe they are related to one another, I'll let you decide):
- When I set up a meeting with a guy, 9 times out of 10, I'll get these butterflies in my stomach. And I don't mean the fun ones. Like butterflies you get before an exam in uni and idk why. It'll happen when I set up a meeting with a new guy as well as with a guy I've seen before. Has anyone experienced that before?
- Sometimes, I'll cum quite quickly. Too quickly, like 1-2 mins in. Just like issue 1, idk why it happens. Sometimes I can keep going for 10-15 mins straight (which I think is quite alright for a bj), but other times I'll be done in like 2 mins. Maybe my brain's been formatted by porn, where when I jerk off, subconsciously I'll tell myself "let's go for a quickie, gotta cum fast". Idk, but it can be quite frustrating. So, same question, has anyone experienced this before and is it normal?
Thanks!
