too thick

So, here's a challenge that I'm sure many of us have had. I'm currently experiencing it and it drives me batty: I'm too large to have (gay, anal) sex with on a regular basis. My partner needs at least a few "days off" after a good fucking just to recover. He's an excellent bottom, for sure...

im 6.6 all the way down and at the head and girls just gag and i havent fit into many of the last. I dont think this is a blessing yet ive heard its optimal. I joined this site cause im confused. My girth seems more for women with larger vaginas and really big mouths. My measurements can be up...