“HUGE” not enough? (Q & A)

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  1. Big Al

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    SUMMARY- This particular client went from 7.5″L x 5.5″G to a recorded high of 8″L x 6.5″G, but still felt inadequacies about his [huge] size.

    Q. Thank you so much Al

    Its been an intense stretch of time , but I did it , I know have my tools.

    There is another thing that have been bothering me a bit and that is I seem to be al to focused on penis all the time.

    I know its a mental game

    I thing i tend to do that about things I fear i lack something in a hurtful area.

    Jealousy

    When I look at a man and have woman respond to men I know everything there is to know about woman and sex.

    Im a passionate man when it comes to sex, I love sex and when you find out that 5,5 inch girth is not really the 100% best penis size for the woman you love more then anything you have ever known , it made me realize that other men had bigger penises and she is into that size I had when we first
    meet (7.5,5.5).

    I dont know if I am going around circles here

    Anyway

    Have do I find an away to let the whole my penis and everyone else’s penis go a way ?

    All the best

    Big Al: I really do feel for you. I don’t usually get the opportunity to go into the depths of coaching that I’ve gone through with you (and I truly do appreciate having this opportunity with you) , but it’s dialog like the following that really allows me to express what the true goal of this coaching is about. The following words are my opinions. I’m not a doctor so none of this should be construed as “medical” advice nor is it a substitution for such. I do hope they help you with your situation though.

    You do seem to be torturing yourself needlessly. To put things into visual perspective for you, compare your largest posted size to the average (5.5″L x 5″G) at this website: Mr Average? – you’ll see that you average OVER 140% MORE than the average man in penile volume!

    A good analogy in your case would be a MULTImillionaire complaining because he’s not a billionaire. While that may seem silly, I believe it’s exactly the same mindset that doesn’t allow one to be happy with having more (in your case much more) of an abundance than the average. I think that that kind of mentality is “viral” in nature and explains exactly why the world is in the state that it’s in today.

    You’re not to blame for your feelings because it’s ingrained in the mainstream culture being shoved down people’s throats- one in which you either acquiesce to fear and do nothing of value (fear-based apathy) or you misdirect your motivation and decide that you must be the “biggest/baddest/best” to be happy (fear-based ambition). I want to clarify something- the emotion of fear can actually be a useful tool IN THE RIGHT SITUATION- it can alert us to danger and actually give us strength (in the form of adrenaline) to either fight or run. When fear is allowed to go UNCONTROLLED it becomes a PARALYZING force that controls you- instead of you controlling it. GIVING IN to fear doesn’t allow you to do things rationally, and it feeds on itself causing a loop in which what you fear becomes an all-consuming compulsion.

    This compulsion creates a situation where even being “VERY well above average” isn’t enough anymore (despite the fact that you may already be too large for a lot of women’s tastes)- you won’t be satisfied until you’re the “biggest”. You have to ask yourself if that’s what you really want to strive for, and at what cost. Are you increasing your penis size for your OWN satisfaction or to feed this compulsion?

    Here’s an outrageous thought exercise that may help- what if you ran into a woman that had sex with someone of very extreme size or that used toys well in excess of any human male dimensions (these women do exist)? Would you be unhappy because SHE wanted more than you could provide (despite your being in the upper 99.9+ percentile of penile size)? Would you abandon yourself in a pursuit to satisfy someone like that?

    Here’s an interesting positive phenomenon that I’ve observed in a lot of successful trainees- once they achieved and even surpassed their goals, the vestige of “needing” to do PE disappeared. They realized that what they were worried about this whole time (an artificial need to be a certain size to be “whole”) was a construct of their own creation. It’s at that point that training becomes a pleasure and not a chore.

    This change occurs because the mindset and INTENT has changed. This process is something that allows you to overcome a negative state of mind, to be THANKFUL for your position/gains, and to also develop compassion for those that may be stuck in a compulsive mindset. The profoundness of this shouldn’t be underestimated- it can effectively creates a whole new outlook for you :)

    You can visit popular forums where you’ll find guys displaying this spirit of benevolence by helping others achieve gains (in PE and other areas of life) and by comforting those that have fallen into the fear trap.

    While these words may help motivate you (and I hope that they do), only YOU can wrest yourself from this compulsion that’s preventing you from fully enjoying what you should be thankful for. It’s a process that takes time, but it’s well worth the effort to do your best to free yourself. Please consider what I’ve written above and let me know what you think. Looking forward to your feedback.
     
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    Excellent post.
     
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    Well al, I'm gonna be honest with ya.
    I kind of feel the same way that your client feels.
    I dont just want to be big, I want to be HUGE.
    I want girls to say: Oh my god when I drop my pants.
    Its not about the size, more about the idea that lies behind it.
    Because for better or for worse, girls will remember that, wether they want to or not.
    If I could choose to be average or be a monster, I'd rather be the monster.
     
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    Gotta be honest, I agree with you 100%. A girl remembers the size.. I saw a girl the other day who I fucked when I was 16 and she spoke about my cock even when I saw her the other day.. so she remembered.
     
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    Thanks :)

    Allow me to clarify- there's nothing wrong with wanting to be huge- to some guys it's a personal preference. The point of this particular article was to address the need that some men have to achieve certain dimensions- and the intent that goes behind their training. It's when this need (compulsion) becomes unhealthy and starts detracting from the quality of your life that a new outlook is needed.

    A curious irony is that some of the real huge gainers have made their progress due to an obsessive/compulsive desire to gain. These men see themselves as "small"- regardless of their true size, and some take drastic measures to ensure that nothing interferes with their training. Some even go out of the way to avoid sexual contact due to these perceived inadequacies.

    Sometimes just knowing that something can be done to change things can be enough to plant the seed of hope and optimism :)
     
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    So, in conclusion, if you want to have a huge penis, you are or need to become obsessive-compulsive about it! :slap:

     
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    This has got to be advertising for betterman penis enlargement. Cheap.
     
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    :confused: Big Al been giving out so much valuable information for free, trust me he is far from cheap.

    That was a very good post as usual Big Al. Thanks for the info. :smile:
     
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    That's not what I wrote at all. Please read a little deeper into what I wrote, please.
     
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    This study was actually done under another program.
     
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    You're welcome :)
     
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    Damnit, I've got huge, but, want large...
    Anyways, yes, I DO have to agree that society's put this bullshit mindset in most people's minds: bigger is better...
    Now, US has a problem with obesity, over-done plastic surgery (bowling-ball boob (And, I use the term "boob" as "mistake") implants), as well as a shitload of international spam for "male enhancement" products.

    Sad thing is, these "companies".. or individuals will CONTINUE getting rich and harming people... cause they keep tapping into people's insecurities.
     
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