“you have ruined other men for me”

[DiamondJoe]

What does that have to do with physical sexual pleasure. What if both guys have the same qualities, except one is big and the other small

That's a false dichotomy as there are many, many metrics that differentiate one person from another... we might include height, weight, body type, intelligence, good humour, kindness, use of language, interests, eye & hair colour... any one of dozens of minor traits that say, ultimately, no two people are alike. Attraction is a funny thing and what attracted 99% of people to their partner was likely not their equipment as that is handily covered with clothing. Well, usually on the first meeting.

And besides, just because someone has a big dick it does not follow that he knows how to use it.

 

[OldFirm08]

WTF, this all happened at 17 and you are now 50........

Hey I can relate. Some people marry their high school sweetheart. Some fall in love so deep, and lose or get rejected and find out they never get 'accepted' again in a love like they once had. So you hang on to the memory. I know how it can feel. Loved a girl back in youth, had decency NOT to rape, fuck her when she was passed out one party night, and yet she never gave it up and dumped me. Always regretted that chance I had to enjoy her to the fullest, but let her get away. Not everybody has multiple sex partners , chances or offers, opportunities given to them each week, month , year as some dude may have. So you tend to recall the long gone 'best of' situations as you age., and as the field gets smaller and you get less or zero opportunity to pump your cock in a girl any more in your life. It shouldn't ruin your life, but you certainly can remember, and given the chance to write about it here anonymously, why not?

 

[OldFirm08]

As we age, and pass by birthdates, 50th graduation anniverseries and all that.....I'm sure there are many men, women, who think back on earlier affairs. Maybe a woman loses her husband in her 60s' and now alone, her mind goes back to places of comfort Even might reach out to someone from past if she dares. Guys too, but then it seems 'creepy'. A couple years ago at age 67, I got a letter from an old friend from HS, she was never a girlfriend of mine, but of my buddies and we al hung together. She was really open,, and I gladly wrote back and gave an email and asked for hers. But the whole event must have been a one time unplanned reaction to whatever hit her. cuz she never ever responded to the letter, or my follow up again in 6 months. Maybe she died, maybe she just was bold to contact one day and got 'stage fright' later. But I totally enjoyed hearing from her, the fact that she even remembered me was enough to make my day. A total surprise. I've got about 5 old girls on my mind who I'd love to see or hear from again in my latter years now. None ever come to the class reunions I've attended....have no idea where they are.

 

[dreamer20]

“you have ruined other men for me”

^^Ans. = What Satan said to Bernard Madoff.