- Lito,
So here’s my predicament.
I’m single right now, have been for some months (bad break-up, shared it here in another thread).
I have a comfortable life. After the break-up, I started dating again… I mean, hungry-as-a-wolf dating. And by that I mean going after 2 women per week, mostly. Add to that some heavy drinking and you can see I was in a road-to-hell mood.
Well, party fever subdued, cut down drinking… and what I have now is this:
1) A bunch of women I can go to bed with, but my interest in them lasts as long as I’m horny only. So I decided it wasn’t fair and I’m not seeing them anymore.
2) this troublesome girl I enjoy being with. We have similar tastes, she’s smart (chemistry phd) and attractive. Like all things, there’s a flaw… somehow I’m not sure I want to be her boyfriend (go fucking figure). She looks like a lot of hard work when In a relationship, although she’s a wonderful friend.
I just spent all day with her, working, having lunch and watching movies (eternal sunlight of the spotless mind).
Furthermore, she sends all kinds of mixed signals, like “oh, if you were my bf I would…” and then “oh, I’m thinking about seeing that guy…”
So… there you go. Pointless (is there such a thing?) sex with random women or trouble girl? (I’m not sure she would have anything to do with me, mind you).
Anyone went through something like that? Maybe I’m afraid of being hurt again, I don’t know. It seems I’ve been hurting a lot of people though. Even being clear you want nothing serious, women do get their hopes up, it seems.
Ack… at least it’s out… I’m not sure there’s a point to this thread, But there you go.
-pax
I’m single right now, have been for some months (bad break-up, shared it here in another thread).
I have a comfortable life. After the break-up, I started dating again… I mean, hungry-as-a-wolf dating. And by that I mean going after 2 women per week, mostly. Add to that some heavy drinking and you can see I was in a road-to-hell mood.
Well, party fever subdued, cut down drinking… and what I have now is this:
1) A bunch of women I can go to bed with, but my interest in them lasts as long as I’m horny only. So I decided it wasn’t fair and I’m not seeing them anymore.
2) this troublesome girl I enjoy being with. We have similar tastes, she’s smart (chemistry phd) and attractive. Like all things, there’s a flaw… somehow I’m not sure I want to be her boyfriend (go fucking figure). She looks like a lot of hard work when In a relationship, although she’s a wonderful friend.
I just spent all day with her, working, having lunch and watching movies (eternal sunlight of the spotless mind).
Furthermore, she sends all kinds of mixed signals, like “oh, if you were my bf I would…” and then “oh, I’m thinking about seeing that guy…”
So… there you go. Pointless (is there such a thing?) sex with random women or trouble girl? (I’m not sure she would have anything to do with me, mind you).
Anyone went through something like that? Maybe I’m afraid of being hurt again, I don’t know. It seems I’ve been hurting a lot of people though. Even being clear you want nothing serious, women do get their hopes up, it seems.
Ack… at least it’s out… I’m not sure there’s a point to this thread, But there you go.
-pax