1 month without jacking off / nofap

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Today I hit 30 days abstaining from all porn/masturbation/orgasm due in part by the nofap section on reddit. The energy and charisma I have gotten from not jacking off is astounding. I simply want to get out more. I approach women without hesitation because I can't tell myself that I can just go home and fap at the end of the night.

However, it's more than just not jacking off that is making me do this. It's a display of will-power and discipline, and ultimately it is turning me into a new person. I feel that this is not only making myself become more confident, but it is effecting the people around me. I have been on a tear this past month, and life is really showing it. I encourage some of you to try it. You have to be strong.

Are there any health concerns with this? other than the fact that my balls are gonna explode any minute
 
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there are potential health issues with not ejaculating for long periods of time, but none are of them are immediate (other than a severe case of blue balls lol). Dr.'s say that a man should cum 2-3+ times a week to help prevent prostate cancer. Our bodies constantly produce cum, so its healthy to clear the pipes several times a week.
 
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if you truelly want to not cum stop the porn the penis talk avoid being on here and self regulation all this talk would make me want to explode aswell I went 6 months it was hard but I did not have porn then I was just a secret masterbator when ever I could I would, I just avoided anything that would arouse me it worked for a while you can do it just avoid the Negative talk If you want this You can do it
 

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Yeah, I haven't watched porn in over 3-4 months so if I did I would never relapse back to it. Gotta power through.
 

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The urges right now are absolutely ridiculous. I need to cum so badly.

A.) Who gives a shit about your self-denial?

B.) So, be kind to yourself and do it.

You "pleasure-deniers" make this out to be some heroic project, as if it's admirable, when actually it is just totally silly, and unhealthy.

What the F*ck is wrong about having orgasms?... Nothing!

Grow up and get over it.
 
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A week is the longest I'll go and the orgasm is intense. Any longer than that and it's self-defeating. Been three days for me now, and I have a man coming over tonight for some fun. Mostly oral on my part as that is what I like. He claims to have gone a week now, so it oughta be real good. I'll shoot my load all over his cock when he is right there, then finish him off.

Two hours to go. Can I make it without beating off?????:eek::biggrin1:
 

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I'm on day 10 myself with five to go.

I would never do this, but my doctor basically said it had to be done.

It hasn't been easy, but I'm trying to make it. The anticipation of the orgasm is what's killing me!!!
 

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I don't think I have ever gone that long. It's not something I would try to do, but self control and will power do make you feel confident in their own way.
 

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I have only masturbated to orgasm 3 times this year, last time was in early march, i edge alot now and have abstained from watching porn for one month, I have sex with two different girls every week 2 or 3 times with each and the sex has been absolutley amazing. I've watched porn nonstop for years, my stamina started to decline and my erections were not as hard, really pissed me off, tried this and it totally worked. Wish i had done it sooner
 
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What a waste of orgasms!

It's more then just not orgasming. It's a lifestyle change that is extending into other parts of my life. It's making me more social, more confident, and more outgoing with more women then I have ever encountered in my life. I can no longer just go home and jack off. It's a wonderful feeling, and each urge that is fought is just another victory.
 

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If I were you, I 'd really worried about not having had a wet dream in such a long time... What you deem a nice challenge it's a ctually detrimental to your T level... The less you cum the more you get accostumed to cum less.. if it makes sense... Personally I tried it many times and always cummed out of my will during a wet dream and always within a week of abstaining... so for me it doesnt work no matter how committed I am..
 

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You do not necessarily have to have wet dreams to shed semen. When you piss, if the toilet foams up heavily, as it does for me, that is your body shedding semen as well.

I don't care about the social crap though, more of a loner myself. When my cock stands up and begs for attention, I take care of it. Not into torturing myself by abstaining.
 

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Congrats on this, man. For awhile I was getting very desensitized due to porn and I had to stop watching and stop jacking off as a way to reboot my mind. Gave myself a good rest from it, can't remember for how long. But it definitely worked and it brought back my confidence as I was starting to beat myself up a lot due to my inability to get erections like i used to.

I don't go through the same issues anymore, I sometimes go through periods where I'm jacking off every day for a week, but then I'll tone down for a bit. Lately I've been trying not to masturbate and only release when I'm having sex with my boyfriend. But damn... some sessions are hot as hell that you can't help but jack off for the next few days because you're remembering how great the last sex session was. :redface: