1 month without jacking off / nofap

[colgan1999]

you seem to want us to congratulate you.

 

[socalfreak]

A.) Who gives a shit about your self-denial?

B.) So, be kind to yourself and do it.

You "pleasure-deniers" make this out to be some heroic project, as if it's admirable, when actually it is just totally silly, and unhealthy.

What the F*ck is wrong about having orgasms?... Nothing!

Grow up and get over it.

Well said.

The OP and his ilk are out of their damn minds.

 

[ShyGuy7]

I agree with the sentiment of trying something new, when it comes to testing one's limits. Having been in the military and growing up in a religious household, I learned at an early age about abstaining. I admit that I always have the choice to change that, but whats wrong with not doing so. I applaud your stamina Kodak.

I have gone 3wks without jerking off, no sex with anyone in about 9 months but continue to check out porn at least 1hr each night. Sometimes I miss a night here and there, but porn is something I haven't abstained from. This may sound silly or stupid, but I do like the feeling of being pent up. Sexually frustrated and ravenous. I like the feeling and the appearance of my dick being heavier and bigger than usual.

That said, I plan on giving in TOTALLY to the desires of my imagination and flesh, while on holiday for the next 2wks. The hard part is determining, which to have first. A girl or a guy, considering I understand, after years and years of denying, I'm turned on and enjoy having sex with both. Hey, maybe I could have both at the same time.

 

[macquest90]

Tried it and after the first 2 weeks I had the wet dream of a lifetime...woke up the next morning covered in cum, underwear soaked in cum...but it does seem to have a somewhat positive effect on my life when I do abstain from masturbating..

 

[Gtiman58]

I agree with the OP, I have gone weeks without cumming or porn or anything like that and appear to function at a higher level. Now, to the people who think you are out of your mind, I say dont knock it before you try it. I was shocked how much extra time I spent either A. looking for pussy B. jerking my dick or C. wasting time with porn and a combination of A and B. Filling my time with other activities BESIDES jerking or 'dicking off' made my life better. After I orgasm Im find I have slightly less drive then before I did. I also have big balls for my size so yes they probably do 'swell' a little do to no orgasms but functioning on a different leve or having more drive is the payoff for me. Bravo OP.

 

[deleted300444]

A.) Who gives a shit about your self-denial?

B.) So, be kind to yourself and do it.

You "pleasure-deniers" make this out to be some heroic project, as if it's admirable, when actually it is just totally silly, and unhealthy.

What the F*ck is wrong about having orgasms?... Nothing!

Grow up and get over it.

Action Buddy is so angry with his " denial issues".

 

[deleted300444]

I agree with the OP, I have gone weeks without cumming or porn or anything like that and appear to function at a higher level. Now, to the people who think you are out of your mind, I say dont knock it before you try it. I was shocked how much extra time I spent either A. looking for pussy B. jerking my dick or C. wasting time with porn and a combination of A and B. Filling my time with other activities BESIDES jerking or 'dicking off' made my life better. After I orgasm Im find I have slightly less drive then before I did. I also have big balls for my size so yes they probably do 'swell' a little do to no orgasms but functioning on a different leve or having more drive is the payoff for me. Bravo OP.

Alll good. I agree.

 

[nc_guy]

I`ll give you some relief,good to the last drop

 

[Kodak]

Alll good. I agree.

Exactly.

 

[soaldude]

wow---don't believe I could ever do that-----I masturbate at least once every day,or I'd be so horny I couldn't stand it---I have let it go about 3 days plenty of times,and man---it's always a huge gusher when that happens-----just enjoy being a man and doing what a man does best ;-)

 

[D_Aurifice_Stupher]

I am going to try going for a week starting tomorrow. Cannot today, a buddy is coming around for some play. But tomorrow, a week off. My cum shots have been getting smaller and less intense due to jacking every day for almost nine months now. Need a rest. Need to let a load build up.

Wish me luck.

 

[CollStorm]

I'm on day 12 myself and have 3 days to go before the big release.

It's pretty much been edging for a few days now...

I can't wait to blast off!!!

 

[Kodak]

Good luck! I look at it like I've only came once in the past 35 days. Which is the longest I've ever gone in my entire life. It's translating into other parts of my life and I'm just gonna try to go as long as possible.

 

[drambone2001]

I see your point, Kodak. It's way cool to see how the body reacts over time without orgasm. However, your balls are probably making you think of ONLY one thing - that next orgasm. You must be producing an incredible amount of precum - hard and soft - at even the slightest thought of something mildly arousing.

That next cumshot of yrs is gonna be one for the history books, dude. YEAH!

 

[silvertriumph2]

there are potential health issues with not ejaculating for long periods of time, but none are of them are immediate (other than a severe case of blue balls lol). Dr.'s say that a man should cum 2-3+ times a week to help prevent prostate cancer. Our bodies constantly produce cum, so its healthy to clear the pipes several times a week.

I personally have been told the same thing by a number of doctors (that is is not healthy withholding from ejaculating) and
I have even checked it out on the net. It seems this is true,
especially if one is not having sex frequently. As it was also
mentioned by another here, I too have been told we normally
pass excess seminal fluids when we urinate, but that it is not
the same as having an orgasm which does more good.

So, holding it back is probably not a good thing if you want a healthier prostate..

 

[AtYourCervix10]

You are my hero!!! I've been trying this for years without any success. I'm a huge failure. Teach me, Sire of No Spank, how can i too, achieve your monk-like status???

Today I hit 30 days abstaining from all porn/masturbation/orgasm due in part by the nofap section on reddit. The energy and charisma I have gotten from not jacking off is astounding. I simply want to get out more. I approach women without hesitation because I can't tell myself that I can just go home and fap at the end of the night.

However, it's more than just not jacking off that is making me do this. It's a display of will-power and discipline, and ultimately it is turning me into a new person. I feel that this is not only making myself become more confident, but it is effecting the people around me. I have been on a tear this past month, and life is really showing it. I encourage some of you to try it. You have to be strong.

Are there any health concerns with this? other than the fact that my balls are gonna explode any minute

 

[AtYourCervix10]

This would make a hilarious Seinfeld episode... oh, wait...

Today I hit 30 days abstaining from all porn/masturbation/orgasm due in part by the nofap section on reddit. The energy and charisma I have gotten from not jacking off is astounding. I simply want to get out more. I approach women without hesitation because I can't tell myself that I can just go home and fap at the end of the night.

However, it's more than just not jacking off that is making me do this. It's a display of will-power and discipline, and ultimately it is turning me into a new person. I feel that this is not only making myself become more confident, but it is effecting the people around me. I have been on a tear this past month, and life is really showing it. I encourage some of you to try it. You have to be strong.

Are there any health concerns with this? other than the fact that my balls are gonna explode any minute

 

[Kodak]

I see your point, Kodak. It's way cool to see how the body reacts over time without orgasm. However, your balls are probably making you think of ONLY one thing - that next orgasm. You must be producing an incredible amount of precum - hard and soft - at even the slightest thought of something mildly arousing.

That next cumshot of yrs is gonna be one for the history books, dude. YEAH!

That's the thing. My body is reacting by telling me I need to get out of my house, get an orgasm by working out, get an orgasm by approaching women, get an orgasm by being confident with myself and finding my own sense of self-worth. I say orgasm because I feel good about myself when I do these things, it doesn't necessarily mean I have to cum just to get this feeling of "getting off". Before I stopped fapping, I seriously was a shell of a man. All the testosterone I was losing by jacking off every night simply wasn't helping my game. I'm by no means the ugliest person, and I could tell that my lack of self-confidence was holding me back.

You are my hero!!! I've been trying this for years without any success. I'm a huge failure. Teach me, Sire of No Spank, how can i too, achieve your monk-like status???

It's all one day at a time my friend. You can't go into this saying, "I'm gonna stop jacking off for three months, and that's that". Honestly, everyone is different. If you can try out with a few small streaks at first, so be it. Anything is an accomplishment. Whether it be 5 days or 5 months, you're on your way. The one thing that has helped me though is exercise. It is remarkable how much more I get out of my workouts because of the extra testosterone I have pent up inside of my body.

Today I am on day 34, and I literally feel like I can go out and get any woman I want. Looking back, I never want to go back to the person I was 34 days ago. Making love to my computer is a thing of the past, and this reboot I am undergoing is rewiring my brain from that porn mentality. After many countless bouts of ED in the bed with women, I've simply had enough. You could mock me for "not releasing" my own cum, but I'm doing it more for myself as a person and not just for myself in the bed.

 

[nicolasonline]

Today I hit 30 days abstaining from all porn/masturbation/orgasm due in part by the nofap section on reddit. The energy and charisma I have gotten from not jacking off is astounding. I simply want to get out more. I approach women without hesitation because I can't tell myself that I can just go home and fap at the end of the night.

However, it's more than just not jacking off that is making me do this. It's a display of will-power and discipline, and ultimately it is turning me into a new person. I feel that this is not only making myself become more confident, but it is effecting the people around me. I have been on a tear this past month, and life is really showing it. I encourage some of you to try it. You have to be strong.

Are there any health concerns with this? other than the fact that my balls are gonna explode any minute

Me usually I masturbate before I meet a woman/guy to dont realise that I want to fuck

 

[eurotop40]

To me, there is a lot of bigotry in this topic.