is there anybody out there who doesn't think of sex with their significant other as a competition? anybody who isn't thinking about whether or not their partner is "what they expected"? anybody besides me who has sex for maybe 4 or 5 hours out of their 168 hour week (that's about 2.5% of your relationship being sex, and 97.5% being the rest of the relationship) and therefor doesn't have it anywhere NEAR the top of their priorities list?
there's so many people talking about relationships ending if somebody isn't pleased sexually... what the fuck do you people even bother having relationships for? if 5 hours of sex is more important than 163 hours of companionship, then the companionship obviously doesn't mean jack shit to you, so why do you even waste your time with it?
and, to the people who think the relationship ends if sex isn't satisfying:
My buddy just got home from Iraq a couple months ago. He was caught in an ambush and took 3 bullets before his crew was able to neutralize the enemy group. 1 of the bullets, unfortunately, hit him in the penis. the doctors were able to re-attach it, but he has lost all functioning. Basically, he can still take a piss normally, and walk around a locker room and nobody will really know, which is better than nothing. But he probably won't even get an erection again without implants of some kind.
In this situation, would you people say that his wife has every right to leave him?
The guy puts his life (including his dick) on the line to defend us all, but is now in a situation where he can't pleasure his wife with intercourse ever again. Those of you who say "if a woman isn't satisfied sexually, the relationship will end", what would you do in that situation?
(btw, anybody that says "its sad that he had this happen for such a good cause, but it doesn't change that she has to move on because he can't fuck her" better hope i never see you walking down the street)