10%, 20%, 30% Gay? How Did You Decide?

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  1. B_1GR8Fokker

    B_1GR8Fokker New Member

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    I’m new here.

    I’m fascinated by the profiles stating straight to gay ratios of 10, 20, and 30 percent gay.

    1. How do you come to decide that ratio of your personality?

    2. If you have these ratios, have you acted on that inclination—did you have an experience in a same sex relationship? What was it like?

    3. How did you feel about the experience? Would you do it again?

    4. Do you look on it as just a part of you that you have no intention of trying?

    Feel free to Private message me if you wish. Thanks!
     
  2. D_Elijah_MorganWood

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    I used to fuck lots of women but haven't in a few years since I'm in a relationship with a man. My straight % should be a little higher but I'm not using it so it doesn't matter.
     
  3. D_Gunther Snotpole

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    My heart loves women a great deal more than my genitals.

    Therefore, 10 per cent seemed about right. (And, useless as it is, it does.):rolleyes:
     
  4. dick.hertz85

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    How did you decide on 80/20?
     
  5. B_1GR8Fokker

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    I thought I'd start there and see where I ended up.
     
  6. D_alex8

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    By past experience. The ratio of women to men that I've slept with is about 1:10. 90% gay, 10% straight seemed to be the nearest match to that.

    I think I answered the first part already :rolleyes: ... and as I've said before on these boards, it was a great set of experiences with some of the best sex I've ever had. I just preferred men by a very great margin in the longer run.

    I have no regrets at all... only very happy memories. I wouldn't have heterosexual sex now, and consider my 10% to be "historical". But at the same time: I'd never say never, because who knows how those percentages might shift at some unknown future point?
     
  7. Charles Finn

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    I have 2 bf's now have always prefer men to women.
    dated girls in high school.
    played around then in 1996 went all the way with a friend girl. was nice but still prefer cock to pussy.
     
  8. dudepiston

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    I've had only hetersexual sex, but I've imagined enough homosexual experiences that I probably should boost my 'homosexual' side UP a bit too! I wish I could base this percentage upon sexual history (or even current sexual behavior) but I have to base mine upon fantasies only.....and the knowledge that I'd enjoy sex with men as much as or greater than my experiences with women.
     
  9. jeff black

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    I honestly sat down... said Ok, I have slept with maybe 10-15 women tops... I have slept with zero guys. (100%-0%)

    I like women, but I find guys attractive on occassion (50%-50%)

    I jerk off to pictures of both (??%)

    Thus my answer.:biggrin1:
     
  10. danny8x7

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    i have the 1% simply because ive jacked with other guys and compared...ive never touched another guy (been touched but not sexually,just curiosity) or done anything sexual with one
     
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    1. I gave this process probably more thought than is healthy. In the moderately distant past, I had a fair amount of sexual experience with men, but the greater number of my experiences (by far) and all of my "relationships" have been with women. On the flip side... I have had more female partners than male, but by a much narrower margin :tongue: . So when I considered myself bisexual, I would have put 70% straight, 30% gay.

    I am now pretty much 100% straight - no male partners for some time. The 1% is there to reflect the fact that I am supportive of my gay and lesbian friends and can somewhat understand their perspective on sexual matters, having been bi in the past.

    2. I haven't been in a relationship with a man, but I have had sexual experiences with men on several occasions. The experiences ranged from good to entirely forgettable. My experiences with women have ranged from great to entirely forgettable, which suggests to me that, all things being equal (which they aren't, but I have to start somewhere) I have a higher threshold for enjoyment with women.

    3. See above - some of the experiences were worthwhile and some were regrettable. I don't think I would be interested in same-sex activities again, but I recognize that someday, I may feel differently.

    4. I've already tried it, so, no.
     
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    I find some women attractive, but not very often. I've had one girlfriend, who was also the only girl i've ever had sex with. I desire relationships with men much, much more than with women. I figure 80/20 is about right for me.
     
  13. D_Elijah_MorganWood

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    The question is...would you fuck me if nobody would ever find out?

    the brain is the biggest sex organ
     
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    Oh Sorcerer, you already know the answer to that question... and I would probably fuck yah if a few people would find out.. I mean, us banging in a well lit area on a beach or something, people are BOUND to find out:biggrin1:

    Or hear us at least.
     
  15. D_Elijah_MorganWood

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    I was making a point, dear Mr. Black.
    Flattery will get you everywhere.
     
  16. jeff black

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    Yes, I caught your point... I just felt an answer was required... Now that people are getting married here, I have to start putting my hooks into a few people. :biggrin1:

    So far, I have you, Alex and I am stealing Matthew from lex...:biggrin1:
     
  17. Roadster Steve

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    I found that the only choices you had to describe your sexuality in that box in the profiles, was as a % or nothing at all, to be so ridiculous, outmoded and limited, I choose to leave it blank and make fun of it in the Languages Spoken box below it.

    Steve
     
  18. D_Elijah_MorganWood

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    whore:biggrin1:
     
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    Awww.... my highschool nickname:biggrin1:
     
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    You so don't have me, bitch. :rolleyes:
     
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