10.5 x 7

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  1. The-Bigger-the-Better

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    I have a buddy that is 10.5 x 7 and he takes viagra before we go out clubbing. Half way through the night he is hard and stays that way for attention. But he also says he has to take it because his length and girth dont allow him to be hard for more than 20 min at a time.

    Have you heard of this? Someone being so big and think that they have to take viagara just to maintain an erection?
     
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    Never heard of it,but where do you go clubbing? love to see that! :9
     
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    If your friend isn't physically fit, has cardiovascular or circulation problems, misuses alcohol or other substances, or even if he's psychologicallly co-dependent on Viagra, then that might explain part of his erectile dysfunction. Is he around your age or significiantly older? Has he had these erectile issues recently or has he been struggling with them long-term? If this has been a longer-than-now issue, is it a congential defect or an acquired defect?

    Point is, there are LOTS of possible reasons why he might have trouble getting hard and staying hard.

    The self-claim that he can't stay hard for more than twenty minutes at a time, if repeated enough in his mind, can really stick -- thus, complicating things. This is called negative self-talk, sort of like people keep thinking that you're stupid, then you internalize the message and really start to see yourself and think of yourself as a stupid person.

    Does he have erectile issues more often when he's masturbating, or when he's having intercourse, or both? When can he stay harder for longer than that time period?

    Fact is, some of us big boys understand that itt takes a little more "effort" to keep 'em hard. There's simply more blood volume required a one time to maintain the errection, and whether it's circulation or psychological or substance abuse or what have you, even the less important/frequent situations might take a bigger toll on us. And never mind how damaging it is to the male ego that we can't get up and stay up.

    If it concerns him that much, then he should see a urologist and get his or her professional opinion.
     
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    I don't know if he's aware of this, but a lot of men don't stay hard for more than 20 minutes, that's really not very unusual. I don't remember the exact stats but I was shocked to find out how short the "average" was for coitus, I'll try to find a study or two later, but I'm sure it was under 10 minutes. I agree with Dee that a lot of it can be self suggested reasoning. Like, the association with it being because of his size that he can't stay hard. Now, of course I'm not a guy, but the guys I've been with who were longer lasting have run the gamut of the size scale, I personally couldn't relate it to size. I think it's a combination of things, size could be one of them, but so is practise, experience, edging and just natural tendancies. I do hate to see someone get dependant on drugs for things that might be better handled through natural methods, like practising edging.
     
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    I'm the same size, and I don't need no steenkin' viagra.
     
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    Same here, and I'm almost 50.
     
  7. Dr Rock

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    holy crap. no wonder people are so insecure about sex, if most of them only last 10 minutes :eek:
     
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    Hell, I'm 53 (almost 54) and I don't need Viagra to get a hard. I might use it when I get really old to keep me from rolling out of bed, but that's a different issue all together.
     
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    Okay, I'll exerpt this short statement based on Kinsey's study:

    Average Frequency of Coitus
    2.5 times weekly.

    Average Time to Orgasm (male)
    Kinsey found that 75% of all males reach orgasm within 2 minutes of penetration, and felt that it was normal, though he does note that it "may be most unsatisfactory to a wife who is inhibited or natively low in response." Way to state the obvious, doc.

    Average Duration of Orgasm (male)
    3-5 seconds.

    Average Time to Orgasm (female)
    Females in Kinsey's studies averaged a little less than 4 minutes to reach orgasm during masturbation, though for coitus it took anywhere from 10 to 20 minutes.

    Average Duration of Orgasm (female)
    5-8 seconds. Orgasmic contractions in both sexes occur at intervals of 0.8 seconds.



    Now, if you're all done reeling from shock, here's another one that agrees that average time after entry is about two minutes!

    http://www.bangla2000.com/Women's_Worl...01-01/sex1.html


    Yeah, no wonder we women are called bitches- we don't get off much. How would you feel if you only orgasmed on rare occasions or alone? I know it made me hate my mate.
     
  10. Dr Rock

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    christ, like I don't already got enough reasons to purge the human race. seriously, who ARE these 2-minute people? where do they live? after 300 or so guys, I've never encountered one who consistently came in under 10 minutes. yeah yeah, I know I'm an amazing lover and all, but still. something very wrong is going on here.
     
  11. orbit03

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    Well, I'll step up. I'm one of the 75% that last in the 2-5 min range (for the first go round of course). Fortunately, that is why I'm happy with my wife. She is very quick on the orgasm train too, so we are quite compatible that way. We also spend a little more time on the foreplay side of things. Anyway, we are both satisfied. :)
     
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    Then again maybe your real problem is you're such a crappy lay that nobody can get off with you unless they think of going at it with Osama during a sandstorm while an airstrike is occuring.
     
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    In my world there are 2 ways I do it
    1 is for me, I hop on and give er. I know it's sort of a "using another for your own benifit" but we both accept it and it's great.

    2 is for us, sometimes more for her. I please her by different means and ways, and we both end up with orgasms, more for her, and sometimes even multiples for me. Sometimes the Cock seems to get a mind of it's own (I think he feels neglected) and it starts to feel like a big piece of rubber making it hard for me to get enough sensations to cum. When I know she has had enough, I have a few (not many) times faked coming just so se can go to sleep, and a few times have just quit.
    One thing I do when I loose all sensations of arousal but am still hard is I resort to just putting my knob in and out of her, sometimes even the only thing touching her is the end of my cock going in and out about 3 inches. This seems to wake the big fella up enough to not feel so neglected and all the sensations come back, the knob grows and hardens to almost bursting and I have a multitude of ejaculations.

    I enjoy both.

    Am I alone on this?
    Questions that come to mind talking about this is, do others find it hard on the back taking long strokes, (knob almost our of the vagina --for my enjoyment, and bottoming out --for her clitorial enjoyment) This is when I sometimes think that a 6 incher would sure be nice.
     
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    Then again maybe your real problem is you're such a crappy lay that nobody can get off with you unless they think of going at it with Osama during a sandstorm while an airstrike is occuring.
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    awww, that was fuckin weak, even for you. still smarting over my dismissal of your political idols? I hear basket-weaving is an engrossing and rewarding hobby ... and much healthier than getting wound up by people you've never met on the internet.
     
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    On rare ocassions, I have been in the under 2 minutes category, but fortunately they have been few and far between. My average is more in the 10-20 minute range and can really vary depending on hornyness, position, time of day, and 1000 other factors. Since I thoroughly enjoy foreplay, a lovemaking session for me usually lasts for about an hour or longer.

    I usually am ready to go again within 10 minutes, so afterplay for a 'short' session can be the foreplay for round 2. That makes everybody happy! ;)

    LapDog :p :9 :p
     
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