I hang out pretty much in chat and rarely the forums, but I love that I can chat about anything and probably never offend anyone.
Plus, growing up in the arts, I was surrounded by gay or bi men, so I actually feel more at home with gay and bi men, straight/gay/bi women, and nonbinary transmasculine.
I've never had "guy friends," and can't stand hanging around groups of straight, gay men. But there have been a few times in my life where I was made confident that I, myself, am not gay at all.
I prefer to go shopping with women, hang out with a group of mommies at a mommy/baby group, and such. The few times I have hung around a bunch of dads was boring.