100% straight
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WOW! and I thought that craigslist was only for finding jobs... :smile:
what is seems is that ppl are missing the point. if you are 100% straight, y get hard to the site of another man? actions speaks louder that words ppl! i can say what i want but if i show you different, what are you going to believe. fuck all that "im only imagining what it would be like to bang a girl with his huge cock." thats bullshit. alot of ppl arent comfortable with their sexuality so they chose the most accptable. its nothing wrong with it tho........ it just show you that ppl may be fronting.
and another thing............. for the ppl say they get boners just 4 the hell of it..... bullshit also. you dont get a hardon unless ur turned on. weather its from thinking about ur dick or just excited.
and another thing............. for the ppl say they get boners just 4 the hell of it..... bullshit also. you dont get a hardon unless ur turned on. weather its from thinking about ur dick or just excited.
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A friend of mine's father in law was in the porn business is California many years ago and I remember him telling me that there are more images of cocks in straight porn than pussy simply because all men look and compare. It might not be about being gay, bi or even straight but about the simple fact that we all look at (maybe even LIKE to look at) cock.
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It's much easier to label someone and understand their preferences in love and sexual areas. That is why the labels started.
It's the same with black and white people, smart and dumb, hot and ugly... It is a normal thing to do.
I base my 100% straight rating on what gender I will have sex with, not on what makes me aroused.
rob_just_rob
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Wow, are we still arguing about this? It's really simple:
Homosexuals are people who have sex with people who are the same sex as they are.
Heterosexuals are people who have sex with people of the opposite sex.
Bisexuals are people who have sex with either sex.
Now, I'm anticipating a lot of angry responses to this very straightforward set of definitions. People will say that sexuality is fluid, talk about the Kinsey scale, one-off experiments, etc, etc. And some of those responses may have some truth to them. But for practical purposes, if you tell someone you are "straight", but sometimes you have sex with men (or if you are female, with women) you're just going to confuse them. (As in "Are you one of those straight women who sometimes made out with girlfriends in college, or are you a straight woman who would be grossed out by that?)
The world at large knows that if you're married to a woman but have sex with men occasionally, you're bisexual.
The world at large neither knows nor cares what you fantasize about.
Homosexuals are people who have sex with people who are the same sex as they are.
Heterosexuals are people who have sex with people of the opposite sex.
Bisexuals are people who have sex with either sex.
Now, I'm anticipating a lot of angry responses to this very straightforward set of definitions. People will say that sexuality is fluid, talk about the Kinsey scale, one-off experiments, etc, etc. And some of those responses may have some truth to them. But for practical purposes, if you tell someone you are "straight", but sometimes you have sex with men (or if you are female, with women) you're just going to confuse them. (As in "Are you one of those straight women who sometimes made out with girlfriends in college, or are you a straight woman who would be grossed out by that?)
The world at large knows that if you're married to a woman but have sex with men occasionally, you're bisexual.
The world at large neither knows nor cares what you fantasize about.
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Everybody's got a little gay in them! Come on! Can we all just be happy and gay! If you like lookin at cock-- GAY, if you think that a man is attractive--GAY, if you are a HOMOPHOBE--Definitely-----GAYGAYGAY. Who really cares, I like messing around with guys, mutual JO/Oral, but i dont find men attractive, but i love me some vagina, "It's sex baby, YEAH!"
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It's very simple and the scale I use reduces confusion.
Heterosexual - has sex exclusively with the opposite sex*
Heteroflexible - is open to same sex, but is most often in heterosexual situations.
Bisexual - swings comfortably either way
Homoflexible - Mostly gay, but sometimes plays with the opposite sex
Homosexual - is exclusive to the same sex*
* with many gays, they have opposite sex relationships before they come out to themselves due to societal pressure. Richard Simmons is still very much gay even if he boinked a fat chick back in the 70's. Likewise, I would catagorize a person who is heterosexual but experimented in their youth with same sex relations and later decided it wasn't for them as heterosexual.
Cocks have an inner life of their own independent of psychologists. They become turgid, erect, floppy, not just from visial stimulation. It isn't surprising that some str8 men experience slight arousal at erotically charged stimuli, be it naked females, males, extreme sports or fast expensive cars.
That could make sense where 'more homophobic' represents resistance to an underlying bi/homosexual inclination, though how you establish 'more homophobic' needs explanation. Plethysmographs (phallometric testing) certainly show even small changes in penis reaction to images but what conclusions you can accurately draw from that alone - at least in my field of work - is uncertain.
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ignore that ruddy yellow-triangle-symbol-with-exclamation-mark.
I don't know how that got there. Anyone would think I'm trying to draw attention to my boring little post.
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mystromio,
First of all let me congratulate you on a wonderful post!! If it really was your first, you can be proud of making it a popular one to post to. I have not read every post but let me throw this out. A very good friend of mine "came out" in college. It was Austin in the 70s so it was cool, and I was cool with it even though he had dated and bedded some very nice girls. He didn't broadcast it but told his close friends. So off he goes and goes to bed with a few guys.. (don't really know how many) Then he tells me, he really enjoyed the sex and learned a lot about guys and himself. He found out he LIKED getting buggered because it pounded his prostate and made him come like never before. BUT, here's the kicker, he figured out he actually didn't like guys, just the sex. His reversion was because when attempted to kiss one, he was repulsed. And yet, kissing a woman made him feel masculine, sexual, all of that, the way he knew it should be for him. Did he go back in the closet? No, he simply went back to being hetero like he always was. It's funny but many people feel that a kiss is far more intimate than sex is. It is for me and I guess for them, at least, it must be. Certainly for him it proved to be. What label would I give him?? I just call him by his name. That label fits perfectly.
First of all let me congratulate you on a wonderful post!! If it really was your first, you can be proud of making it a popular one to post to. I have not read every post but let me throw this out. A very good friend of mine "came out" in college. It was Austin in the 70s so it was cool, and I was cool with it even though he had dated and bedded some very nice girls. He didn't broadcast it but told his close friends. So off he goes and goes to bed with a few guys.. (don't really know how many) Then he tells me, he really enjoyed the sex and learned a lot about guys and himself. He found out he LIKED getting buggered because it pounded his prostate and made him come like never before. BUT, here's the kicker, he figured out he actually didn't like guys, just the sex. His reversion was because when attempted to kiss one, he was repulsed. And yet, kissing a woman made him feel masculine, sexual, all of that, the way he knew it should be for him. Did he go back in the closet? No, he simply went back to being hetero like he always was. It's funny but many people feel that a kiss is far more intimate than sex is. It is for me and I guess for them, at least, it must be. Certainly for him it proved to be. What label would I give him?? I just call him by his name. That label fits perfectly.
the same people that say "my sexual orientation shouldn't matter to you!" start threads STRESSING sexual orientation. it's amazing to me...
anyway, i feel like who the fuck cares? who cares what's on a COMPUTER screen? oh, sorry, i forgot how everything on the internet is real.
don't kid yourself. everyone's thought about it. doesn't mean you'll do it, and even if you do end up doing it it doesn't mean jack shit. i've had friends who have been with chicks, (and one guy who even got head by our gay best friend while i madeout with him and sucked on his ear), who still consider themselves straight, and they are. just because you tried coke once or twice, does that make you a coked out drug addict???
i fantasize about chicks all the time, and then some days i wake up and the thought of being with a chick disgusts me. i could care less whether this makes me straight, bi-curious, bi-sexual, or a lesbian. i'm just me, and if it happens one day it happens, and if it doesn't it doesn't. either way, i call myself straight because i know that i don't want to be in a relationship with anyone else but a man. if someone else wants to call me bi or a lesbian because i think about licking a girls vagina, be my guest.
anyway, i feel like who the fuck cares? who cares what's on a COMPUTER screen? oh, sorry, i forgot how everything on the internet is real.
don't kid yourself. everyone's thought about it. doesn't mean you'll do it, and even if you do end up doing it it doesn't mean jack shit. i've had friends who have been with chicks, (and one guy who even got head by our gay best friend while i madeout with him and sucked on his ear), who still consider themselves straight, and they are. just because you tried coke once or twice, does that make you a coked out drug addict???
i fantasize about chicks all the time, and then some days i wake up and the thought of being with a chick disgusts me. i could care less whether this makes me straight, bi-curious, bi-sexual, or a lesbian. i'm just me, and if it happens one day it happens, and if it doesn't it doesn't. either way, i call myself straight because i know that i don't want to be in a relationship with anyone else but a man. if someone else wants to call me bi or a lesbian because i think about licking a girls vagina, be my guest.
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Surprise! We're all bi, and capable of enjoying a lot more sex than we do now. Wanna argue, or fuck?
Yes. Apparently why prostitutes avoid kissing (intimacy.)
Makes sense, pass4fun.
I'd call your friend by his name, too. Sounds like he was experimenting.
Perhaps, these days, his girlfriend(s) give him a good rogering with a dildo while he's passionately kissing them.
Why not? :biggrin1:
motorcityboy
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I agree with reese on this one, I've hooked up with plenty of couple and mfm and I find it true.
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